My mom keeps tightening the leash?

Question

Okay so I pretty much live by myself. I live with my dad who works nights and has a girlfriend so I'm here by myself most of the time. My mom comes by to check on me sometimes, and she keeps tightening the leash(since my dads not a disciplinarian of any kind). During 9th grade school year, my curfew was 11 PM. Then summer started, and she moved it down to 10 PM for no reason. Now, she's decided I can't go out at all! My friends came over, a group of people she hasn't met, and they were like "Wanna hang out?" And I looked at my mom and I was like "No I gotta take a shower" Then they leave and my moms keeps grilling me about them "Who are they? How old are they? How long have you known them" I keep asking her to bring my favorite jeans when she comes, and she keeps saying, "Why? You're not going out or anything". I'm like WTF. She just left and as she walked out the door she said, "You better answer the phone when I call". I'm like seriously, dubayoo tee eff. She keeps being like, "I'll stay over here if I have to"(because my dad works nights) and I'm like noo no Ugh she is so ridiculous sometimes! Is she being overprotective or not? I'm about to go into the 10th grade.

Answer 1

so you are,... turning 16? i think she is too over protective. You live with your dad, Why dont you stand up for yourself?

how much rule has she got in your fathers house??? I think your father would stand up for you and be on your side.

Next time she does that, answer her back. Go get your jeans from her house and any other of your stuff that you want.

When she starts at you, yell, scream and make a huge scene, dont answer your phone - and make it clear you arent answering it because it is her ringing and you know it. Dont speak to her at all if she goes mental at you. Seriously, what can she do? You are living with your dad! Get the locks on the house doors changed!

Explain to your dad that she is really hurting you. Cry infront of him, and say you just want her to learn to treat you nicer.

if all else fails- what is she going to do if you actually walk out the door, even if she is staying over? she can call the cops - but then you can just walk out again! Stand up for yourself.

I can understand that she cares - but she is being a total b*tch about it, and i hate mothers who are like that.