My mom kind of knows that I kissed my boyfriend. What should I do?

Question

Facts about me first:

I'm a 13 year old asian [thai] girl. I have a boyfriend who is also 13 and asian [indonesian] and my parents and his parents approve with me and my boyfriend's relationship.

Story:

I was alone with my mom having a mother to daughter talk. We were both in a happy mood and enjoyed talking. Until my little brother came out of no where and just told my mom that my boyfriend and I kissed. Mom kept asking if I really did kissed him [which we did kiss] and kept giving me a serious look.

Problem: I lied to my mom that I kissed my boyfriend. I just had too! I really love him [ please don't say that I'm to young ] If my mom really does know that we kissed

1) She would tell my dad [ dad will be very angry]

2) She would kick me out of my house

3) Send me to Thailand or the other state Utah

What should I do? Keep lying to her? Do I have to tell her the truth? If my mom told me too break up with him, should I?

I'm very scared right now. My life would change completely! Please help? ):

Answer 1

I think you're worrying alot over nothing. Little brothers are a pain, I know! I really don't believe she'd kick you out, or send you away... you're too young, and you're her daughter! But you are a little young too be kissing, in their minds. Just put her thoughts to rest... maybe you can tell her he kissed you on the cheek, or he kissed your hand. If you're uncomfortable, I don't think you have to tell her the entire truth. It's not good to lie, it always just leads to more lies, and then you have to cover up all the lies, and it's more trouble than it's worth. But this, I think it would be ok to just keep it to yourself. Parents never understand, anyway! If she hasn't kicked you out by now, I really don't think she will, so quit worrying so much. Think of something you can tell her to make her feel better, and that will be the end of it. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

THis question overwhelms me!!!!!

I'll pray for you.  Your dad sounds scary. I'd tell your bf about the no kissing thing, then break up, but still hang out, while ACTUALLY still be bf and gf just in secret. Until your 18. or married.

Answer 3

Lots and lots of 13 year olds are in a relationship, lots of them kiss, and yes the first one is scary, well at least the telling mom/dad part. My dad sounds a lot like yours, Im 13 too, never had a bf (don't want to) but if they approved of my realtionship and I kissed him, I'd tell them right away.

Just for kissing a boy, is no reason for them to send you anywhere, besides where would you go? You can't legally live alone, you are 13.

Come straight out, tell her (mom first) then make sure she not you tells your dad. I'd make sure she understands, and make sure she doesn't jump to conclusions like the next thing she know you guys are gonna get married.

Answer 4

tell them the truth and see if they well believe you and they well forguve you ok so try my anwser dont get scared

Answer 5

I obviously don't know your situation. but i really don't believe that you mom would kick you out of the house. Your not too young to be "in love" but i do think that you ar WAY to young to start making decisions about life because you "love" someone. Love is fleeting. take my word you will be over him in less then a year.

About your problem. i really think that you should tell your mom about kissing your bf. She will think that you are acting grown up by taking responsibility for your actions. if she finds out on her own (which she most likely will) then she will be twice as upset, because you did it and then lied to her. admitting you lied helps a lot.

good luck!

Answer 6

the way i see it is what if she finds out from someone else and she realizes that you lied to her the outcome may be even worse. you don't want to burn that bridge.that's the way i see it

Answer 7

ok you're over reacting. I really don't think that your mother would send you away first of all. so yeah they might be mad at first but they'll get over it. as for breaking up with him if they tell you to? i don't think that you should because they told you it was ok in the first place. just tell her and maybe she'll understand she'll probably just want to talk to you about what is respectful for 13 year olds and what's not.  

Answer 8

Well it was just a kiss would your mom really take it that seriously. tell her that you really like him and you just kissed him. shell getmore mad if she finds out you lied.

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Answer 9

woahh dude chill outt  your mom would not send you to thailand lol she may threaten to but she would never and its not that big a deal i kiss my bf and im 14 and hes almost 16 and my rentss dont care