My mom makes me cry everyday and im 13. when im at my dads i never even feel sad.

Question

i cant stand it anymore. she makes me cry everyday for things i didnt do and when i try to talk to her about how she constantly breaks me down she just yells at me for putting her in a bad mood with her problems. i might ask her to go see a councillor and i'll tell the councillor and the councillor will tell mom but it seems kindof out of the way. i used to have depression problems to i already know a few good councillors that im comfortable with. i cant even live with my dad because he's single and works full time and doesnt want me to be at home alone for a whole day. what can i do? its to the point where i'll do almost anything to get away from home and i fall asleep crying every night for something i didnt do. help me please. she breaks me down untill i cry constintly and i cant handle the pressure anymore if it keeps going im going to act out. i already cut my left arm twice because of her. help.

Answer 1

get her to change or she'll have to get parenting classes

Answer 2

this is a sad and very upsetting thing to read for you and your mum,I feel in this question for your mum as well there are some things Im sure you do not understand your mum feels all the pain of loss she is after all only human and understanding how she feels will help you understand why you two are having problems, I know se feels she has let you down and is having trouble getting that across to you, its comming out as anger and not an explanation of the way she is really feeling, the only one who can help you is you? your father no bad words said against him is free your mother is still in the same place as she was when your dad was there only now she is alone or feels that way try and make friends with her do some thing out of the blue for her even if its making a cup of coffee she needs you more than you need her believe me      

Answer 3

You have your solution - you need help, so talk to your best trusted counselor.

They usually have the experience on how to deal with situations like these.

As you indicate - you won`t hold out much longer without help - so please don`t hesitate.