My mom needs to know everything!!!! HELP!

Question

whenever i am at my dads house and my mom comes to pick me up she always says whos that whos this or things like what is that? and she talks about my dad and stuff like things like when is your dad going to get a girlfriend?!?! like hurtful things to me and my dad. what should i do

is it really just none of her buisness or should she know about the things i do there?

btw my parents are divorced so yea

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Answer 1

this is part of dealing with your parents divorce.

they cant talk to other one or express them self correctly.

so they put it on you, feeling safe.

just ignore what she she says and keep replying &quot;i don&#039;t know&quot;.

if she gets angry or upset tell her nicely how you feel and if she really needs to know to ask her father.

hope this helps hun.

Answer 2

it&#039;s true your mom should not be asking those questions, but you can simply ask her in a nice way why she wants to know those things.

--good luck

Answer 3

my mom does that.. and i say its personal.. you dont need 2 kno everything.. i dnt kno ur mom so i wudnt be that harsh...

Answer 4

HONEST, THATS NONE OF HER BUSINESS. WHEN SHE ASK YOU THAT AGAIN TELL HER TO ASK HIM. YOU DONT WANNA GET IN THE MIDDLE OF WAT THEY GOING THROUGH BECAUSE TRUST ME IT CAN GET TO YOUR HEAD. OR IF SHE ASK YOU TELL HER YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HIS PERSONAL LIFE THAT YOUR THERE FOR HIM AND NOT HILIFE WITH YOU AND NOT HIS PERSONAL LIFE. IF SHE GET MADD YOU  KNOW SHE STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM AND TELL HER THAT TOO.

Answer 5

It really isn&#039;t any of her business. If you were with a friend, then yes, she could ask all the questions she wanted. But you&#039;re with your father, you&#039;re parent, there&#039;s no reason for her to be so nosy if you don&#039;t want her to be.

My Mom was the same in the sense she told me a lot of horrible things about my Dad, and I ate it up. It really hurt our relationship, obviously with my father cuz I beleived what she was telling me. But it hurt my relationship with my Mom most cuz I found out that she lied. And even if she hadn&#039;t, some things shouldn&#039;t be told to your child about her father.

You need to stand up to your mom and say &quot;Mom, I really love my Dad, and I don&#039;t appreciate you saying things about him like that. So what if he gets a girlfriend? You guys are divorced. I&#039;m sorry if you&#039;re hurt, but don&#039;t bring me into it.&quot; Or, you know, something along those lines.

Answer 6

Mothers need and should know as much of what is going on in their kids lives as possible.  It&#039;s good for the child and for the parents.  

As far as asking questions about your Dad, ex-wives tend to be nosey like that just because they want to know what&#039;s going on in their lives too.