and I am going on 20 and have been secretly dating a guy in college who is really sweet and we are serious about each other, we've been dating for almost a year and we love each other and have plans for each other. When ever she asked me about him she says you better not be anything more than friends I would not accept that and she makes me feel bad about myself and puts me on guilt trips and it's almost like she hates men and wants me to be alone all my life. I was depressed all last year before I met my first boyfriend and I would cry my eyes out and all she would do is watch me and do nothing and make it worse by argueing with me then I decided to get away from home as much as possible and took a lot of classes at college and met my boyfriend and she continues to do things to constrict me from seeing him and put me in a bad mood so my boyfriend has to see me go through that and it's so aweful and horrible and I hate it and don't know what to do because I live with her and I can't afford to be on my own yet. And she's met my boyfriend 6 times already and she didn't even like him if we were friends and she tries to tell her friends who have grandsons about me to get me to go on a date with them when I think she is aware I am in love with my boyfriend and he is a really nice guy, he saw her one time and walked up to her and waved hi and tried talking to her but she just ignored him and talked on her cell phone. I like my boyfriend a lot and he takes good care of me. I feel so overwhelmed what can I do?
and he is a wonderful guy, he was on the dean's list, gets good grades, he wants to teach someday and is serious about school, he works, he's very polite and attentive to me and I love him so much. Despite all this she won't give him a chance or let me date yet. I feel one day if he proposes to me then she'll find out really late and it'll be too late and she is so controlling so that's why I won't tell her she would try and feel my mind with doubts with him and he doesn't make much now but we both will make enough when we have our degrees and careers.
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