My mom slapped me when I said 'you need s*x'?

Question

When I arrived to home she was shouting at my little sister.... I'm 20 and I said 'mom she's only a girl'... she replied 'shut up Ryan'.. I said 'Oh mom you need s*x... you're stressed'..... then.. she slapped me... I'm angry, sad... what do I do? Was she right? I'm 20!- Thanks for your answers and greetngs from the USA!

Answer 1

Your comment was way out of line and disrespectful and I don't know how you are going to fix this one you better do alot of chores and you better say Im sorry and I was way out of line you better think of ways for her to forgive you my mom would have knocked all my teeth out and wait till your dad hears if he lives at home ouch

Answer 2

honey she was right.

I read all the comments and they are all right.

you should respect her more, but what you said is in the past.

now all you nees to know is that never to say silly things like that again (learn from mistakes) and apologise.

she was probs stressed so try get her to understand that you didne know what she was going through and that you wouldnt say those things again.

Bcos if you dont speak to her then what you said that day will re0enter her head again and again and you wouldnt want that.

xxgoodluck and remember you were lucky to get away witha slap and not a kick up your bum

dejavuxx

Answer 3

Good for your mum. If it was your dad he would probably have floored you.  Just because you are 20 you should not talk to your mom the way you talk to your pals.  While you live in her house you give her respect.

Answer 4

Are you a 20 yr old with a 'mind' of a 2 yr old ?

Grow up and while you're at it APOLOGISE to your mum !!!

Haven't you ever heard of RESPECT ?

Answer 5

I don't think that she was in the right to hit you.  -I'm sorry, but NO parent is EVER in the right when they hit (yes, spanking is the SAME THING as hitting) their kids.  -It's SICK and uncalled for.

However, you weren't anymore in the right to say what you said, especially when you said it.  If I were you, I would apologize and explain that you weren't meaning to say anything hurtful or disrespectful, and admit that you were out of line.  If you were trying to ease the tension of a stressful situation by trying to be funny, let her know that was your intention but that you just went about it all wrong.  If you were concerned about your little sister, be honest and let her know it, but that you didn't mean to interfere in the way you did.  -What truly descent parent could honestly be angered by a sibling feeling protective over their other sibling.  -It infuriated me to no end when I heard my parents being harsh to my little brother -whether he deserved it or not.  Let her know that it will not happen again and MEAN IT.  Let her know that you don't ever want to hurt or disrespect her to the point that she hits you ever again.  Unfortunately, in this situation, you will have to be the one to swallow pride and apologize first.  -After all, she wouldn't have felt she had a reason to slap you, had you not said what you said.  Try giving her a funny apology card and ask to speak w/ her alone.

Both you and your mother could have handled things differently.  Next time you walk into chaos at the house, just leave quietly and go back later when things have calmed down.  It probably wouldn't hurt to talk to your sister and tell her not to intentionally provoke your mother either.

Answer 6

It wouldn't matter what age you were I'd give you a slap for that cheek too.

Answer 7

What you really need it to get out of the house and get a place of your own.

You're lucky that's all she did to you.  I guess you don't understand what "RESPECT" is.

I really think, no, what you need to do is apologize to you mom.

You know, to get respect you need to give respect.  Also, you need to start acting you age.

Answer 8

she snapped NO excuse for slapping you but being a mom can be stressful trust me i have 5 and we do get angry at times over trivial things and yes we do shout but your mom will be beating herself up about shouting at her little girl and more so at slapping you. what she did was unacceptable but have you wondered what c**p is in her life at the moment? its not right to put it on you but maybe she needs someone to talk to? you dont mention if she is single or if there are reasons she is down? i am assuming this is the first time she has hit you? tell her how upset you are and ask her if maybe she needs to talk about it your mom will always be your best friend but lashing out in anger suggests she has underlying issues, maybe she is depressed and needs a bit of medical help to get her beck on track? talk to her cos trust me she wont be sleeping tonight.

Answer 9

I'm on your side, hunny. Ya, at that moment I don't think you should have said that but she had no right to put her hands on you! you are an adult, not a child anymore. you were right. speak to her. Apologise and tell her you were only joking with her to lighten the mood but that you are grown and she can't disipline you that way. she will probably agree and apologise.

Answer 10

yup she was right. apologize ASAP

Answer 11

if any of ny kids said that to me they would get more than a slap but then my kids show me respect so they wouldnt say stuff like that

Answer 12

I think you were very disrespectful, i bet that's the last thing she needed to here at the time.  Perhaps you need to help her out a bit with housework and chores, it might take the pressure off her.

Remember people always take out their anger on the ones they love most.  Just offer support to her.

I think she wasn't right for hitting you, but i bet you wont say it again now!!

Answer 13

Sweetheart...maybe its not something she wants to hear coming from you! The mere statement coming from her own babe is indicative a a sexual liberation on your part that she does not want to acknowledge because of the possible negative implications...maybe her distress was deeper than just a sexual releif valve fix...In any event...you should not hold it against her...just say you are sorry about what you said and let her open up and tell you what is wrong...

Answer 14

she was right to slap you respect your mom little man...............

Answer 15

Age is not the factor here,

the rude comment is,,,,,,

Are you Nuts?

That may have seemed necessary at

the time,,,,,,but you embarrassed

your Mother !!

Whether she was right or wrong

is up to her.  You owe her an

apology,,,,,,Immediately !!

Answer 16

Sorry, but i think that's funny. Not that she slapped you, but because you said she needs s*x. I would just let it blow over. Cooler heads prevail sort of thing ya know?

Answer 17

WOWOW , good job, now all you have to tell her is "mom i think dad is cheating" hahaha...no but really, it's nothing to be sad about, unless you DIDN'T SAY SORRY,

Answer 18

maybe you shouldnt have said that to your mom,maybe appoligse for sayin what you did. make her a cupper or do something nice to show you are sorry for sayin what you did. It was just spare of the moment thing right? neither of you was right, but she didnt need tohear that  tho? angry bcos of what happend n what was said maybe,and sad bcos maybe didnt think ur mom would react that way, and u feel sorry for saying it.

Answer 19

That's downright rude and disrespectful. If I said that to my mother, I'd have gotten a lot more than a slap.

Answer 20

SORRY BUT SHE IS YOUR MOM AND THAT PROB HURT HER ,AND ITS PROB TRUE,,BUT I FI WERE YOU I WOULD SAY URE SORRY THEN TRY TO TELL HER THAT SHES STRESSED OUT AND NEEDS SOMETIME OF HER OWN,,MAYB SHE WILL TAKE U UP ON THE TIME ALONE N GET LUCKY..HA...PEACE

Answer 21

Of course she wa right! What on earth made you say something like that to your Mom? Apologise now.

Answer 22

Your lucky you don't live in my house, otherwise you would be nursing a sore butt for the rest of the week.

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Answer 23

you are really disrespectful with your mum and was right to slap you!!