My mom thinks she is a bad parent?

Question

what happend was that me and my brotherr and mother were sitting in the room and all of a sudden my brother said where is my shirt i need it now and my mother said she didnt know where it was and then my brother started screaming at her and said to her she was a bad mother so she started crying and when my brother left the room my mom said to me the since we were born thats what she was scared of that we will tell her that she was a bad mother

but she is not how can i tell her that she is a good mother and how much i love her

Answer 1

Your Mom thinks she's a bad mother because her son yelled at her for not knowing where his shirt was.... yeah, that's pathetic.  The only thing about it that could possibly make her a bad mother is she's raising a disrespectful, brat of a son.  She should punish him for that.

Answer 2

Just tell her.  But if she's more concerned about what your brother thinks about her than teaching him to treat people right I might think he has a point.

Answer 3

You should tell her that your brother is wrong, and that his behavior is not normal.  His behavior is unacceptable and he may need therapy. Tell your mom that not knowing where a shirt is does not mean she's a bad mom, but that him yelling at her like that does make him a bad son right now.

Answer 4

ur brother dumb for yelling at ur mom. he has no rspect. and ur moms probably depressed she get over it.  

Answer 5

me.meme3, that is pretty selfish and insensitive thing for your brother to say to your mom.  But kids, and adults sometimes are guilty also, say things that they neither mean or intend to say just to hurt the other individual.  You can perhaps attempt to make mom feel better by letting her know just how big a part she has played in all your lives, that you love and respect her and that you hope to be the same kind of mom when you are married with kids.  As for your brother, if you can try and talk some sense into him.  Tell him it is just a bloody shirt and that he is probably old enough to do his own laundry rather then blaming mom for not having it laundered when he needed it.  Ask him to grow a spine , grow up and apologize to his mom too and let her know how much he values her also.  Best of luck.

Answer 6

Bad mothers don't love their children.  They don't bathe them, clothe them or feed them regular meals.  A bad mother won't go out of her way to show her child that she loves them.  A bad mother will mistreat her kids and call them names.  

It doesn't sound to me like your mother is guilty of any of these things.  Tell her how much you appreciate the things she does for you and that without her you would be lost.

However, your mom needs to take some control of your brother and not allow him to treat her that way.  Your brother is not respecting your mom.  I know once kids are older it's hard to take control if they've never done it before.  That's why it's best to raise kids from the beginning to always have respect for their parents.  It can be done, it's just that some parents don't really know how to go about doing it.  I'm sure she didn't intend to have a child who treats her this way.  

You can reassure her that she is a good mom.

Answer 7

That is dumb and disrespectful. Your mom just needs not to pay attention to him. Also if he does not like it he needs to be worrying about his own laundry I am sure that your mom has other important things to worry about then his shirt. Your mom does not need to cry unless she might be going through some menopause or hormonal change that she is reacting the way she is. You might want to ask her if everything is okay with her. But your brother needs to treat your mom differently she deserves it. Good luck  

Answer 8

you can tell her what a good mother she is. how she cares for you, loves you and all the things she do for you. buy her some flowers or write her a poem.