My mom told me she hates me....

Question

She was getting angry at me, so i told her to calm down. and she then said I'm not the boss of her to tell her what do. So she walks out the room she just tells me she hates me. Did she mean this? You cant really just tell your children you hate them, if you are only a bit mad at them can you?

Answer 1

wow thas harsh but maybe she was to to mad your own mother cant hate you she gave birth to you just try to talk with her

Answer 2

I don't know how old you are sweetie but I am sorry you are so troubled. No a parent should never tell a child that they hate them no matter what  the child has done. Hate is a word that my children are not allowed to say...it is not a nice word. I am sure your mother didn't mean it maybe she has a lot on her shoulders right now. Never the less she was the one in the wrong. I would try my best to be good until she can get her emotions under control. Good luck and God Bless :)

Answer 3

I don't think she meant it.

Sometimes people get so worked up, they say things they do not mean in the slightest.

I bet she greatly regrets saying it, and is too embarrassed or ashamed to come to you and apologize.  I'd wait until she was calm, and tell her that her saying she hates you really hurts, and you're sure she doesn't mean it.  

I am sorry that happened, I can imagine it hurting a great deal.

Answer 4

she didnt mean it..my mom tells me she hates me all the time and i dont fuss about it anymore. it doesnt really mean anything she was just really pissed about something...and im sure the main problem wasnt you either you were just at the wrong place at the wrong time

Answer 5

u dont do that things which ur mom dont like.dont make her angry.do what she likes.no mother will tell this that she hate her children

Answer 6

that happened to me so i just told her i hate you to

Answer 7

The next time she tries to talk to you, just look her directly in the eye and tell her "you crushed me when you told me you hate me" and then proceed not to talk to her until she breaks down and actually feels bad about it. Mom's make mistakes too.

Answer 8

NO SHE DOESN'T hate you she was only pissed off it happens a lot my mom tells me she hates me sometimes but when I talk to her about it she just starts crying about how sorry she is and she didn't mean it (even though I had done something really bad, even I would totally hate me for it ...) But no mom hates her child no matter what that is a known fact be sure you're not the first or last kid to be told we hate you by your parents... and one day when you grow up and have kids of your own you will know what I mean...you'd tell them you hate them after they really p**s you off and sometimes it is not them but they take it out in you don't forget how much trouble our parents go through and we don't exactly make it easier or even say thanks sometimes that doesn't mean that we hate them right and haven't you ever told your parents you hate them when you didn't mean it bec. I have all the time and we are a really close family... One final note if she really hated you she would be ignoring you, won't even care enough to say I hate you....Just go talk to her about it I'm sure she'll cry and say she's so sorry...Get an umbrella there will be a lot of waterworks...

Answer 9

I've kind of been in this situation. Kind of. What you need to do is leave her alone for about an 15 to 30 min. Then she will probably start to come to you and apologize. She doesnt' mean it. Remember.

Answer 10

when people are mad, sometimes we say things we don't mean. i don'k think she means it. when everything has cooled down and you and your mom are talking again, ask her the question. she may not only explain and say sorry, but you would understand her side too.  

Answer 11

She dont really hate you. But sometimes adults say the dumbest things when they are upset without even thinking about what they said. Also maybe you dont feel it was a big deal that caused her to get upset with you but maybe to her it was. And with all the other things on her mind ...she took it out on you. What ya do is wait till she calms down and give her a kiss and tell her you are sorry for what you did and see what happens.  :)

Answer 12

NO mum on the earth hates her child. she is only angry from something & she doesn't mean what she said so wait couple of day till she calm down. DON't blam your mother about anything, she is gonna blam herself enough