My mom treats me and my sister unfairly?

Question

my mom treats me and my sister like we're NOTHING compare to my brother.. :| even if his in the wrong and i'm in the right, i get the blame for everything, his 13 and i just turned sixteen, not too much of an age difference.... but when i was younger i got hit and left with red marks and scars, my mom used to MAKE my dad hit me for basically no reason!!! it really hurts my feelings so much, my childhood was terrible, i hated it.. my mom doesn't care about me, she couldn't care any less about me then she does now. and because of her i try to be a rebel just to get her attention, i smoke, drink and do anything i can to get back at her and she just doesn't care, thanks to her i'm drug addicted now at only age sixteen :( what should i do? what ever i say she refuses to listen.... pleaseee help and plus i don't go to school or college so theres nobody i can talk to.

Answer 1

  Oh Dear!  I can relate to you.  It is like you are telling me a story of my past!  I was beaten by my mother and she hired a nanny for my younger sisters and brother, but my mom encouraged this sadistic nanny to beat me with belts and other objects.  I became addicted to alcohol and pot at you age.  I agree with the first answer about rehab because at your age I didn't have anyone to encourage me to take that first step.  When I was 16 the net wasn't around to get advice.  I wish I had yahoo answers when I was your age.  The only sympathy I got was from other addicts.  My advice is to not make the same mistake I made because I married into a bad marriage to get away from my abusive home life.  Go to child protective services because they will help you get off the chemicals and explain that you are being beaten.  they are there to save you, not judge you.  I have tears in my eyes reading your question and that doesn't happen much.  I hope this helps because you deserve a life without abuse.  You can take this experience and make a success of your life.  I hope and pray for you! I battled alcoholism on and off until the age of 32.  I am just lucky to be alive sober and free.  I want the same for you.

Answer 2

I to was brought up in the family where both of my parents where drunks, but where also very successful as well. When my parents us to fight and I mean fight where chandeliers would fall from the ceilings and knives where thrown, I would have a hiding place that no one could ever find me. I grew up with this from age 4 to the age 16 and then I moved out on my own. I also started drinking at age 13 and was doing drugs to I was 19 and now it is behind me. It did make me allot stronger when I needed to be in life of being on my own, but I rather of had my child hood. If you ever want to talk just e-mail me when ever. But to let you know, you are not hurting your parents when you are doing drugs and drinking, you are only hurting yourself. Good luck and I wish you the best.

Answer 3

Well, your problably not going to like this. But try going to rehab. It might help you. There are other people like you who might understand your situation better than I do. And try having a serious talk with your mom. Just try to get along with her. I know thats not as easy as it sounds, but all you can do is try. I hope this helps you out.