My mom wants me to pay..........?

Question

I have a job, and my sister doesn't and I am younger

than her. I am 17 and she is 20. My mom pays for

EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that she wants but

for me she doesn't pay for anything since I have my

own job, which is understandable except when I'm

short on money and need to buy things like lotion

she won't give me any. Then the next day she goes

and buys my sister $100 shoes and she can't even

pay for $31 lotion. I get paid tomorrow & she excepts

me to help her pay the bill when she goes crazy spending

money & she doesn't have a job either my dad is the only

one who works & me, & my mom and sister stay at home.

I recently asked for $10 for when I go on my break at work

so I can buy something, since I paid for school fees and

she totally ignored me until I got angry and just left for

work she gave me money. But it totally pisses me off

how she expects me to pay but she won't pay for things

when I need it. I just finished summer school and I paid

for it, so I got the cheque back in my name and my mom

was constantly bugging me to sign it so she can get it

for herself in the bank. She also left for the States and

came back a week ago and spent over $1,000 in 3 days.

I really don't want to help her pay, I'm a nice person I do

everything for her, when we have lunch I always pay and

I even gave her $100 when I only had $200 left in my

banking from all my schooling. What should I say or do?

Answer 1

Any money that you earn should be saved up... not spent like that.

i think your mother and sister are irresponcible lazy b*tches. Sorry. you are every bit right as they are wrong. I hope one day you manage to teach them a lesson for treating you so badly.  

Answer 2

Save your money, tell her it's obvious that you are going to have to pay for college yourself because you don't want to end up a free loading loser like your sister. That should shut her up. No matter what tell her no money then sit down and have a talk with your dad is it possible that he doesn't realize that she is bugging you for money?

Answer 3

quit  your job, when you are old enough move out and tell her why you are going.

maybe by then your sister will have a job.

Answer 4

If what you describe is true, then your mom is a blood-sucking leech. You shouldn't give her another dime. Not one dime. EVER.