My mom wont stop judging the boys i see !!!!?

Question

every guy that i like my mom says that he has a bad look comin from his eyes

meanin he looks like a bad boy -- that could hurt me

i hate it when she does that .. and then shes like howcome u never want me to meet the boys u see

and im like because just cuz their older doesnt mean theyre gonna do somethin stupid

im a freshman usually dating seniors

so wat do i do about her

Answer 1

well im a guy so i cant really relate to your story...my dad would congratulate me if i brought home a hot girl and my mom would give any girls a hard time if they wore to much make up or something like that. but I can tell you about my younger sister. every time her boy friends would come over my dad would essentially play 20 questions with them and make them feel really uncomfortable...i know that it is kinda sexist but parents are a lot more worried of their little girl getting taken advantage of than they are with their sons.

Answer 2

Sometimes trust your mom's instincts at least a little. Even if you date them, be aware if something goes wrong. Your mom really does care for you and is just worried. Don't at scared or anything. Just have fun but be cautious

Answer 3

It seems like a look in someone's eye might not necessarily be enough to judge them as being a "bad boy" who's going to hurt you--you might want to sit your mom down and ask if there's anything more specific about the particular guys you're seeing that's bothering her (for example, any things they're saying or doing.) Discussing specifics might make her open up more about concerns she's having and will give you a chance to tell your side of the story.

Also, ask other trusted friends and family members for opinions; sometimes friends and family can see something that you might not be able to see due to your feelings for the person.

Answer 4

dont tell her when your dating someone.

Answer 5

Your mom is right to do it, you're dating seniors who have no respect for you because you're a whorey freshmen and they just want in your pants. Your mother is a wise woman