My moms birthday is coming up?

Question

she will be 50 on september 20th.my father and I were thinking of throwing her a birthday bash with all our friends and family,but should I just take her out for a quiet dinner in a fancy restaurant [just her and i] and buy her a nice gift?

Answer 1

if she is into big parties i would do that...but i would just take her out to dinner and get you something... so you guys are just one on one

Answer 2

Buy her s*x toys

Answer 3

Your idea sounds nice, but you need to attend the family bash too. I'd hesitate to do dinner alone with Mom because I wouldn't want to insult Dad. I would do lunch or a weekend brunch followed by a stroll through the mall with Mom though.  

Answer 4

Why not do both. Fifty is a milestone for an adult. My friends surprised me with a limousine and a night on the town with friends and family. Then the next night my really good friend took me out for a quiet evening. I enjoyed them both immensely and seven years later I still remember the smallest detail.