My mother hates me and my brother, should we call child services?

Question

My mother hates me and my brother just because were black. Shes a mexican woman and she had relations with my black father twice. And it bothers me that everytime me and my brother comes into she leaves and she tells us things like were no good and im going to be a w***e and my brother is going to be in a gang. She had another baby with a mexican man and she just loves her so much and she treats me and my brother like dirt. Me and my brothers clothes and shoes have to have big tears in them or be just totally messed up for her to get us new things. She never buys us school supplies either. How can I make living in her house go by faster. Should I call child services

Answer 1

Yes I would call child services.

Answer 2

YES YES AND DOUBLE YES! I agree with Martha P, you really need to consider being separated from your brother, and e prepared for a different way of life. the good part is your mom will not be your guardian, so there's nothing she can do. but remember, foster care is extremely

difficult, and not all foster parents are good. calling child services will change your life dramatically, so really think it out and weigh your options. good luck

Answer 3

if she is neglectin you and your brother then yeah i would definitely call child services

Answer 4

I'd say call children services and if they don't help get a ride to a safe place with other family or a friend.

Answer 5

Well I actually think you should call protective services (if you want). Tell them what your mother is doing to you and show them proof like your clothes and everything. And then tell them that you really don't want to with your mom and let me tell you something there are so many people out there that will treat you a whole lot better. There are alot of couples that want kids that can't have any. So you decide but remember. It all changes too! Your life.

Answer 6

yess...b4 anything gets worse

Answer 7

in order for child protective services to take you and your brother they have to have a good reason. the clothes thing wont fly with cps. you need to have good reason, neglect, abuse are a few. but they can help. if you all cps they will interview your mother and maybe family. i say being you are so young, do you know an adult that can help you and understand. i would hate to have you go through this alone being so young.  good luck

Answer 8

I'm so sorry that your mom treats you and your brother like that.  I think that you shouldn't call child services unless she physically harms you or doesn't meet your basic needs, food, etc., is there another relative that you can be close to, like a grandmother, aunt, etc.?  I think that your mom had issues that are her own, it would be great if she would get counseling, but I doubt that she will, older people can be stubborn that way.  Maybe you could get counseling thru your school?  It should all be private, your counselor shouldn't tell.  Please don't believe the negative stuff your mom says, those issues are hers.  Please try and forgive her and accept that she'll probably never change, but try and be happy anyway, try and be close to another relative or caring adult.

Answer 9

YES!....But they might seperate you and put you in foster homes and maybe you wont like that very much either... Is there a relative that might wana take care of you guys??...

Answer 10

if you want to call social services go ahead.