My mother hurts me a lot. What should I do?

Question

She makes me an object of ridicule. She laughs and says to other people, in a bad way, about what I had said or done be it about my likings or dislikings or any other simple things a human being does.

She does not even care about what activities I like, and tells me that they are useless. But she forces her favourite activity, ie singing, on me. But I was never interested in learning it. And whenever I mention that she curses me like h**l. She has a habbit of cursing extentively and meanly for stupid reasons.

If I cry for any reason, she tells me aggressively not to cry like an idiot.

It seems that she does not seem to consider me as a creature with feelings or liking/disliking.

What should I say to her or do so that she stops doing all these and hurting me like that?

I can't even complain to her about her because she screams out,"stop" after a word I say.

Answer 1

just  tell  here

Answer 2

1st how old are you, if your over 18 then move out if you can and avoid her at all cost. if your under 18 more less in school you need to talk to a counselor

Answer 3

Can you talk to a counselor at school or a clergyman?  Bless your heart.  I hate that for you.  Maybe she's not able to control her anger, and she needs counseling.  Try talking to your father or a grandparent also.  You've got to get help.  God Bless you.

Answer 4

What a horrible mother! I'm sorry you have to live like that.

Maybe you can see a counselor and maybe they will try to help things between you and your mother or maybe you can try to stay with someone els for a while.

Answer 5

aww

i feel really bad for you

tell your mother that you are not feeling right

and tell her how you ARE feeling with her.

if she still continues, rub something in her face that shes done or that youve done.

threaten her back, if she has an embarrasing moment, laugh at her about it!

if she hurts you just get out of the house, away for a few hours, that will leave her worried then when you return, just walk straight past her, and ignore her.

she will think that you are ahead, and finaly she will relize that she is no longer the boss of you.

i hope this helped!

good luck

xo,

Answer 6

maybe you could talk to a counselor at your school, tell them that you are having some communication issues with your mom and are feeling hopeless about the situation, or you could write her a note if she'll read it. i wrote a lot of notes to my parents when i was a teen, because they couldnt turn into a yelling match between the two of us, and you cant tell a note to shut up, or turn and walk away from a note, and notes don't whine. if none of this works you're just going to have to develop a thick skin when it comes to your mom. You have to realize that she has some problems and that nothing she does or says is your fault. Even when she ridicules you to other people it makes her look bad, not you. I know thats hard to believe but its true

Answer 7

omg im sorry. all i could tell you do to is tell like a school councilor (i spelled the wrong) or someone about it and see if they can help you and help your mom understand how that makes you feel and stuff. im sorry that this is happening to you. hope this helps.

Answer 8

Have you any other family member you can talk to and explain how horrible your Mum is to you.  They may be able to talk to her for you.  There may be some reason you Mum is so horrible and is just taking it out on you, I know it is not fair if this is so.  Tell your Mum you are pleased for her she has an interest in singing, but it doesn't do anything for you.  

Hope you can get things sorted soon.  Good luck.

Answer 9

If you under 18 all you can do is not react to her abuse.  That only gives her what she wants.  Wait it out, and try not to get sucked down to her level.  If I were you, as soon as I legally could I'd cut that harridan out of my life....