My mother in law is acting in an overtly sexual way toward me when my fiance isnt around,what to do? ?

Question

low cut blouses fishnets you know the routine

Answer 1

Maybe she try to test you or that's the way she really dressed-up and only your mind thinks like that. Just ask in polite way to your fiancee that her Mom likes a youngster always on fashion and see what your fiancee will tell u, maybe she will said, she really like that. Always feel young.

Answer 2

Try to plan a time for your fiance to walk in unexpectedly during one of these times.  See what her reaction is toward her mother then?????

Or tell the mother-in-law to dress more conservatively in your presences????  And add--no insult intended.  Good Luck.

Answer 3

Well, if she is your fiance, then she isn't technically your mother-in-law, is she?  Just an observation.  As far as what you should do about it?  Well, that all depends upon whether you wish for your fiance to actually become your wife, doesn't it?  Wink.  Seriously, though.  You would find some who would say that you should have a little fun on the side.  I think that is a bad idea for several reasons, personally.  Is the mother-in-law to be married?  Is she a widow?  What is the situation?  If she is not married, maybe you could help her find someone else to direct that sexual energy toward?  A blind date, or something?  If she is married, then that would be a bad idea, would it not be?  It is a difficult thing to answer without having additional information about the situation.  It isn't exactly a common situation, but it certainly is far from the first time that such a thing has occurred.  Without additional information, I don't know how to give a solid answer.  I do know that if you love your fiance and wish for her to become your wife, than you should certainly not give into the mother-in-law to be's advances.  That much is for certain.

Answer 4

Tell her to "BACK OFF LADY!"

Feckinghector, that'd kill your girlfriend stone dead if she knew you spoke like that.

Answer 5

Are you a man or a mouse ? this woman sounds like a s**t and you should be able to handle this on your own.

Also avoid situations where you have to be on your own with her.

Answer 6

The next time it happens you need to sit your fiance down and say that maybe it is just you being weird but her mother makes you uncomfortable and you would prefer if she didn't leave you alone with her. You need to remember that you are treading on eggshells here, if you tell the mother to cop on and cut it out she may get annoyed and worried that you are going to tell her daughter that she has been coming on to you. Her reaction to that may be to tell her daughter that it is the other way around and you are coming on to her.

You also can't come along and say 'your mother is a tramp and she has been coming on to me', her automatic response will be to defend her mother. You really need the softly softly approach here, hence the ' it might just be me BUT'.

Answer 7

It's upto you fella, you know what's the scene better than us on here.

Answer 8

She is not your mother in law and maybe that is the way she dresses anyway. Ever heard of the word 'no'?

Answer 9

How can she be your "Mother-in-law" if you are not married to your fiance.? As for her making moves on you, maybe you are misreading her way of being cute. Or maybe she wants to act like a relief valve for your ardor, sparing her daughter.  Either way, you lose.

Answer 10

I would agree that it would be a good idea to let your fiancee know you are concerned about her mother's behaviour (bit more diplomatic than describing it as overtly sexual). Then she can tell you whether it is her mother's usual way of behaving, which will take some worry from you; if it is not usual, then she can say something to her mother. Her mother will hopefully realise where your loyalties lie and take note.

Hope that helps. Good luck

Answer 11

She might be in competition with her daughter in all things.  Submitting to the bait will likely end your relationship with the daughter as she will throw it up in her face.  If she isn't in competition but just trying to feel s**y to herself with the nearest available man.   You could tell her, in a non-flirtatious way, that she looks attractive but it is too distracting and embarrassing for you.  That might be enough to make her put her housecoat back on.   Discussing it with your lady is required.  she may give you insights and be able to make mom stop or go out to a good meat-market bar where something my come  of her to be seductive.    Don't touch!

Answer 12

Oh really!

The best way to handle this is to tell your fiance, & let her sort her mom out.

Answer 13

discuss it with your fiancee. maybe thats just how she is normally. but you dont want to invite drama by not saying something.

Answer 14

the best thing would be to tell your fiance . tell her you are not SURE she is doing it on purpose or towards you because you dont want her to think you are just making it up. mothers and daughters can be very close, so there is a thin line there, but just tell her it is making you uncomfortable and that you would like for her to see if she sees what you are seeing. i think that would be the best way to handle it. that way, you dont sound jealous of the mother but you get the point across to your fiance. you never know, she may have had this problem in the past with her mom?

Answer 15

Run like h**l!!!!

Make it clear to her you're in love with her daughter and she should get the hint, otherwise just avoid being alone with her altogether.

Answer 16

If you are a decent person, which it sounds like you are or else you wouldn't be seeking advice, you already know the answer! Tell your fiance how uncomfortable the situation is for you, she will get to the bottom of it if indeed there is something wrong with the picture. It might be that her Mom just dresses S****y! Good luck!