My mother is ignoring her family because of obsessed friend help please?

Question

my mother has a tendancy to ignore her own family members including me to cater to one of her friends needs.

recently my mom and i relocated to another city to be near family because my father passed away and being that i am 38 years old i could have stayed where i lived before but i took it upon myself and a favor to my mother to move with her.now this friend of hers is also moving here and since she has been around my mom acts as if i and other family members do not exist.this friend is very obsessed with my mother wont leave her sight and doesnt want anybody around my mother not even me her own daughter.i am getting to the point where i want to go back to where i was living before and say the h**l with this because i dont deserve this treatment from my own mother.my father recently passed away and this is also why i came with her and now she acts as if i dont even exist.any advice please thanks

Answer 1

You need to tell your mothe how she is treating you. She may not even noice and I don't think she is ignoring you on purpose. But if you still want to move then move. You are a grown woman who deserves to be happy in life :)

Answer 2

First off, you are a grown woman. If you don't want to stay by your mother anymore then "go back to where i [you] was [were] living before and say the h**l with this."  

Answer 3

are they sexualy attracted to each other?

I find it amazing that a woman of your age is still at home and not stated her own family

Answer 4

you should sit down with her and tell her how you feel. But you need to stay gental with your words since you faather passes away recently. Tell her how you feel, stay calm, and hopefully you will have good results.

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