My mother told me she didn't care.

Question

hey my name is abbey I'm a fun loving chick and my mother told me today that she doesn't love me and she doesn't care. i feel upset and lonely I'm on my laptop in my room I'm scared to go downstairs coz i don't know what to say. please help i just wish i could go somewhere that would feel like a home. I'm just upset and scared. I'm 15 but i feel so young and week.

Answer 1

Is this something new for her? Maybe she is suffering from depression or abuse. If you have given her a lot of grief when she has been trying very hard to give you a good life, you need to apologize to her. If not, talk to a relative and see if you can get some help for her. She needs it, because it is not normal for a mother to not love her child.

Answer 2

ur mom cd be angry..or going thru a bad phase herslef..shes just a human bieng..cm on hon..all moms love thier lovely daughters

Answer 3

Sorry you're having such family problems....

Answer 4

Well you must have done something to upset her..

Answer 5

Soory to here that but hiding isnt going to do anything tell how you felt when she said that

Answer 6

she does but wat did u do to hurt her

Answer 7

She is your mother she is always gonna care about you. My mother told be that before and what you need to do is not hide from her but confront her and be calm. Don't get upset or anything tell her you feel hurt.  

Answer 8

I had one of those moms when I was young too. There's nothing I can say to make you feel any better. Even her telling you she is wrong won't change the fact that is was already said. I don't know what kind of person you are but if your close try talking to her. Otherwise, in me experience talking is gonna waste time. As time passes so willl her cruel words. Sorry hun...

Answer 9

mmmm well...don't worry ...do you have  a dad ?...or another person ?

aunt ?..you can turn to ?..talk to ?..may be your mom did not mean it ..may be she just had a rough day..ok

Answer 10

A) I think you must have upset her big time but deep down she loves you.

You perhaps need to approach her apologise for whatever you have done and make life changes.

B) Or your Mum is having a difficult time maybe menopause and she needs some help and support and love.

You must be feeling lousy yourself but hiding won't sort it out!!!

Answer 11

Did u do or say anything hurted her or touch her feelings? if u remember that u have done go and apologize to her and dinfintly she'll forgive u

if u didn't do anything wrong, so may be she have some problems with anyone and u just came at the wrong time to talk to her so what u ahev to do really go down and kiss her telling her how much u love her and can't be away of her and believe me she will give u a big hug as no mother in the world hate her kids and who knows may be she needs u beside her in that time and she couldn't tell u, somtimes parents don't want their kids to get into their own troubles

plz tell us what's the result, but iam  sure of the result it'll be very happy