My mum and dad treat me different!!!?

Question

My mum and dad are divorced however i go to my dad's every weekend. Everytime i go their he treats me different from my little brother for e.g if i ask him for money he'l say no but if my brother asks he gets 10 pound or more, why is this?? And when we are at my mum's she buys him everything e.g clothes, trainers, aftershave and i get nothing can anyone please exlain to me what i am doing wrong?? I feel like my mum and dad dont love me as much as my brother and it is hurting me so much but i dont know how to approach them without them both going mad??

xo

Answer 1

The younger ones often get treated `better`.   They are always considered the `baby` of the family  - I wouldn`t worry too much about this if I were you.  It probably is no reflection on you, and I doubt they love you any less than they do him.

Answer 2

talk    to   here

Answer 3

Firstly, you shouldn't have to ask your dad for money. he should give you both a fair amount, according to your ages, without having to be asked.

Secondly, it's probably down to their guilt. For some reason they feel more guilty about your brother than you. Maybe he's better at pressing the guilt button.

Rather than compare yourself with your brother, or feel you've done something wrong, you just tackle each parent to ask them what they consider is a fair way of treating you and sorting out your clothing allowance. etc

Answer 4

Maybe they don't realise it.

He's there little baby, so they act all protective with him,

and give into him more.

I don't know why, but my mum was the same until i brought it up.

Your worried about telling them?

Leave them a note, or show them this.

Answer 5

Seriously get really angry next time it happens. Bring up every time they done it, throw in a few tears, have a big emotional with them after. It always works, trust me hun. But I gave up on parents ages ago so meh. Gud luck in whatever you do ☺☻