My mum goes out at night and leaves me on my own until 2 in the morning

Question

Im 15...but i dont like being home on my own at this time...she comes home half drunk aswell and i dont like it...what do i say to her?

Answer 1

Tell her that you dont like being left alone, maybe then you could be sent to stay with a relative or have someone stay with you whilst she goes out

Answer 2

Tell your mother when she's sober that your don't like being at home alone until 2:00 a.m. and that you want to have friends over to keep you company. Good Luck.

Answer 3

say get fuking help i ahte yo im going to live with ( your dad or someone you know) i hate mi mom i punched her twice as self defense but idk she doesnt hit me all the tim eonly wen im bad

Answer 4

Um...idk what you would say to her.  You mght make her angery possibley.  Go to a family member who you know will understand and tell them whats been happening and how you feel.  And see if maybe they can do something about it.

Answer 5

tell her that she aint setting a good example

but u too should have fun.

talk on the fone, get on the computer, ask if sum friends can come over, watch tv, etc

Answer 6

just enjoy the time you have to your-self! dont call 911 because then she might get in trouble and im sure she doesn't mean to hurt you.

Answer 7

Am sorry to hear that hun, i remember when that use to happen to me..and i would see my mother getting drunk in front of me..the point is there's nothing much you can do.. i know it sounds harsh but it is your mothers life. all i can advice you is to talk to your family members about it they might be able to help you out or perhaps invite a cousin or a friend over when night like these occur. One tip is to talk to her when she is not drunk and to tell her how you feel.. i know it may be hard but perhaps she'll listen??

Keep trying hun! i was in the same boat and i had a drunken step father!!

take care!!

with love,

kitty.

Answer 8

try talking to her & telling her u dont like being home alone all the time, and if u;re guna go out & party then i am too!!! LOL(:

first, though try talking to her polietly!!!! Or, maybe ask her if u can hav a few friends over when she goes out & ahve a movie night!!!

good luck!!!(:

-softball♥sweetie

Answer 9

TO BE HONEST YOUR MOM HAS A DRINKING PROBLEM! You ned to tell her that her leaving you alone that long in the night is not proper parenting, and that she shouldn't leave her child all alone to go drinking and return late at night is really irresponsible. I'm not saying your mom is a bad mother or anything it's just that she should really pay attention what she's doing. Her leaving you alone and coming home drunk should make you want to talk to her about this. If she doesn't listen you should try to make her see what she's doing wrong or if that doesn't help then maybe you should try to get her into a alcoholic anonymous program or if you need help on how to try and talk to her you should try talking to kids help phone

Answer 10

dont say anything throw a party and just have fun with friends.  

Answer 11

You are 15 and don't want to be alone? wow I never heard of that!  Get some of your friends to come over and watch a movie and eat.  She is going to do what she wants and apparently thinks you are old enough to stay alone, which you probably are.  Sometime when she is sober tell her you would like to have a evening with her just because she is your mom and you need to learn more about each other and your feelings.

Answer 12

YOUR MOM IS WRONG IN LEAVING YOU ALONE , LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, TALK TO AN ADULT WHO YOU TRUST AND ASK THEM TO INTERVEN FOR YOU IF YOUR MOTHERS BEHAVIOR CONTINUES , ALCOHOL MAKES PEOPLE DO THINGS THAT THEY NORMALLY WOULD NOT DO. GOOD LUCK AND TALK WITH A MATURE ADULT.

Answer 13

Tell her she is setting a terrible example for her daughter who is at a very impressionable age.  It sounds like she needs to get her priorities straight.

Answer 14

im sorry but if this continues you should call 911 or parent abuse hotline because thats neglection and its against the law.

Answer 15

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Answer 16

I agree - this is disgraceful! However, confronting your mother may prove to be really hard... nobody wants to hear that they are negligant.

You should speak to a youth counsellor or a samaritan organisation who may be able to guide you through this or may even be able to help you liaise with your mother and work out a solution. Speak to a counsellor or teacher at your school or perhaps just search google for youth workers in your area and contact them. They may be able to point you in the right direction if they can't help you directly.

I hope this helps and I really hope that you can work this out with your mother.