and refuses to go to the er unless i take her. ok.. im 7 months preg. and i have 3 small children.
i told her before that since she's got a fever, i would be scared to load her up in the car w/ all my kids and take her, she's coughing so hard that she puking sometimes.
she says that she's always gotten sick like this and its like a chronic bronchitis/asthma thing. she smokes which doesnt help. but one time before she actually got a hole in her lung from coughing so hard!
tomorrow is my sons birthday, which i've been planning ALL week, my husband comes home from a weeklong trip in the morning- and she is saying that basically the only way she'll go to the er is if when my husband gets home (which he's DRIVING home like 14 hrs.) if he'll stay up w/ the kids so i can take her. then later after the birthday party- i come pick her up from the hospital.
im just scared she could possibly be contagious, and when i mentioned it she flipped out on me and yelled" ITS NOT CONTAGIOUS!" but how do i know?
i just feel like shes putting me in a tough spot because she needs to go see a doc. but i offered to pay for a cab- she refused. saying that wasnt the problem. i know she doesnt want to be alone.. what do i do??
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