My neighbour caught her 9 years old kid having *** or whatever with an 8 years old..She panicked ..?

Question

She called me and I asked her to call the police which she eventually did.. I am confused..Is it normal??Normal as in,are such cases reported regularly? And 9 years and 8 years old actually do it? I could't ask for details as she did't want to talk about it...

Answer 1

Kids now a days are doing whatever they want to do cause the parents dont know how to give the kids attention.

Answer 2

You have got to be kidding me.

Answer 3

um talk to the kid? get the kid a shrink? idk.....

Answer 4

Kids explore.... yes they do it younger and younger. Parents need to open their eyes and talk to their children.

Answer 5

This question is not offensive and every parent should take it seriously. People, kids are experimenting much earlier now. Why? Look at what they see on a daily basis in  movies, ads, the media, tv shows and video games. Look at their toys. Little girls covet Bratz dolls that look like little hoochie mamas. Little boys play (or see their older brothers playing) things like Grand Theft Auto where they pull women out of cars and rape them. This is entertainment?

And don't think that because you don't allow your children to do these things that they are never exposed to them. They have friends who have older brothers and sisters. They see ads on television. Look at the Victoria Secret ads. That borders on p**n. I'd be willing to bet that most of the teen girls on here are buying that stuff and wearing it.

Look at how the kids dress today. Even the little ones want the "s**y" outfits that their teen age sisters wear. s*x sells everything from automobiles to booze to clothes to sporting goods. If you have that kind of emphasis on s*x, the kids are not going to ignore it.

It's not that s*x is bad, it's that we are allowing our children to be exposed to things that are beyond their maturity level, then we are surprised when something like this happens. In the news there have been recent reports of kids having s*x in the classroom with other children watching. We should be shocked at things like this, and we should do something about it.

There is a big difference between 5 year olds looking at each other or playing doctor and 8 and 9 years olds actually experimenting with s*x. Will the police do anything? Probably nothing much will come of this. Sad, but true.

I don't see this as much as a moral issue as I do an issue of a society that has lost its way... where self-indulgence has become more important than families and children. Where parents have to spend so much time making ends meet that they can't be there for their children.

We have a lot of problems, America.

Answer 6

The child was probably inmitating something he/she has seen. The mother doesn't need to panic or call the police or anything like that. But she should instead sit the child down and have a good chat with him/her about what s*x is, and how it's purpose is for making children and for adults to show they love each other.

They probably got a glimpse of a movie or walked in on mom and dad or something similar and was just playing around.

And even if there was some kind of 'genital contact' the mom still shouldn't panic. She should once again explain the importance of 'private places'.

I know it's hard to think about but this isn't some omen of an overly sexual teenager/adult. It doesn't mean this child is going to grow into a sexual deviant or anything like that. Even some babies will touch themselves because it feels good, those children could have just been exploring that with each other.  Which is also something that should be addressed.

Answer 7

They obviously seen it somewhere to know how it goes. That is too young what is this world coming to. Where are parents these days when their child is out having s*x at 9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17 years old.

Answer 8

No, it's absolutely not normal, in any way, shape or form.

The only way an 8 or 9 year old child would know how about s*x is if someone else has shown them what it is.  Either they've seen the details of what happens with their parents in bed, or someone has been sexual with them - both of these are forms of child sexual abuse.  

While no actual crime has been committed between the two children, getting the police involved is probably a good first step.  Chances are, they'll investigate what's going on in the homes of both of these kids.  I hope they can find the cause of the problem, and get counseling for both of these children.

Answer 9

Kids try everything they see and are curious about what they hear. If one of them saw that happening whether on tv or in real life, they would naturally try it out. Scary and sad!

Answer 10

God, people, get a grip.  Young kids have been playing doctor together since the beginning of time.  Now all of of a sudden it's a "s*x crime." They don't have adult s*x drives, but their parts still feel good when stimulated.  Did you know that babies can m********e?  Even in utero?

And note how curious we puritanical adults are to hear the "details" while condemning others for engaging in child pornography, like the TV viewers who tuned in to Oprah hoping that that kidnapped teenage boy would divulge all the sordid details of his molestation, and how disappointed they were when he didn't.

This New Puritanism will be the death of our civilization yet.

Answer 11

Yiekks that is a shocking story. Both parents need to gently get the truth out of their children and then meet up and discuss exactly what went on ,horrible I'm sure, but if I was a parent involved I would need to know exactly what I was dealing with. But, if the police were called - let them sort it out.

Answer 12

yea, thats not normal. who is this kid? and why is her kid doing this? idk maybe they are some type of... aliens? lol jk

Answer 13

Think its bad that the parents were not supervising the children.

My Nine year old is only aloud on the garden and in there the whole time watching him.

Answer 14

I would be very curious to know if they were actually having intercourse. If so, I think both kids could use some counseling and never be left alone again. Sorry about your friend's dilemma.

PS -  your question isn't offensive at all! You are concerned about your friend. No worries.