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My new boyfriend says he doesnt like to cuddle. Does that mean he's not interested in me?

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My new boyfriend says he doesnt like to cuddle. Does that mean he's not interested in me?

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  1. No.  A lot of men are naturally bodily warmer than women, who seem to be always bodily cold.  Women wear sweaters and coats more often and at higher temperatures than guys.  These guys get very hot (and I don't mean that in the sexual way) when they cuddle.  A compromise would help the situation.  Five minutes of cuddling and then off to sleep.


  2. Put a straight jacket on him and he wont have a choice.

    Wow there's a lot of sense of humor bypasses today!

  3. Yes

  4. he just likes to fucckkk. Get used to it

  5. You asked this question a long time ago.  I already said that some guys don't like to cuddle. He's dating you, so that means he likes you.

    Good luck.

  6. most men dont like to cuddle.

    compromise. tell him no s*x if he dont hold you afterward , if thats really important to you.

  7. No - it just means that he doesn't like to cuddle - with anyone! Affection and signs of affection are different things to different people - some people like to kiss, some people hold hands, some people play footsies under the table! I think that cuddling is a very intimate experience - usually before or after s*x - so it could be that he is not ready for that next step yet. Or it could mean that he has body image issues and doesn't want you to be too close to him until he's comfortable. Or...the age old symptom, his parents weren't affectionate or cuddly with him so therefore, he's not comfortable with it.

    If he's dating you, he likes you!

    The cuddling with come with time - I'm sure. And if it doesn't, you may want to examine some of the possible reasons that I've listed and see if you can work through it with him!

    Good luck!

  8. really , lol ya ok i hear a lot of ," well most men don't like to cuddle", what a crock of crud. OK guys just how many of you would rather be doing what ever or wanking off more than cuddle some babe............... ah ya lmfao.

  9. I think you should talk to him maybe yall are just to different and you need to find some1 eles but if you feel like he not interested in you then ask him talk to him and come up with a way that you feel he stil wants you also with something he likes to do

  10. no it just means he does not like to cuddle

  11. Honestly?

    I think it might mean that, yes.

    I can't imagine caring about someone in that way and not wanting to hold them - for its own sake, not just as part of s*x.

  12. Suppose it was in any way conceivable that the relationship was about him, rather than as all women think it is about her, (yes it would take more imagination that half of are capable that) but just suppose it was about him, THEN would what HE feels MATTER?

    Would you ask him then?

    Oh, what am i going on about, what? women concidering MEN having real FEELINGS, could never happen. could it????

  13. How old are you?  If you're still in high school most of the guys won't want to cuddle, they're after one thing and one thing only...it's a hormones thing.  so I really wouldn't worry about it, they just think it would damage their image and all guys at that age feel that they have to be a tough guy.

      Now, if you're older and he still doesn't want to hold you while even sitting down and watching a movie or something there could be a problem.

      Of course when I was in college, I dated a girl who developed a bit of a hygiene problem and I really didn't want to cuddle or do anything else with her.

      If we're talking after s*x, there's a TV show called Coupling that says it all...the contact sweat, choking on your hair, and being enveloped by an octopus; and of course the natural desire to sleep in ones own bed.

  14. No, it doesn't mean that. Honestly, i'm a female, and I hate to cuddle. I've been flat out crazy about a guy, but I really dislike being hung on, even by someone I love. So it just means he doesn't like to be cuddled on, it's not about you.

  15. Men don't like to cuddle . only for a minute or so . women know this . so , it is not something strange .

  16. Well maybe he is not one of those very open with physical expressions of affection.

    But then not to cuddle or hold someone to your heart because you love that person seems a bit weird.

    Maybe you should have a heart to heart discussion and take it from there!!!

  17. No, but it may mean he has a problem with intimacy.   If you enjoy cuddling and he makes no effort to accommodate your feelings, sometimes, then you have a bigger issue.

  18. Men aren't really into that spooning c**p ESPECIALLY after s*x. Sorry, we just need rest and usually are too hot to have another heat source against our body...

  19. no it just means find somthing else to do with him .....
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