My nightmare is coming true?

Question

ok this not so happening feel like i am gonna cry. ok the thing is that my parents are arranging my marriage to someone i don't even know or seen.I am an indian. In my culture your parents look for a guy for youto marry. and i don't want to get marry. i have already told my parents that i am not going to marry till i am ready and even if i am ready,i am not going to marry someone of their choice 'cause they are complete opposite of me and they are going to find someone of their choice but they are not ready to listen to me.they said that i have to get marry to someone their choice no matter what i thing. i am way to young to get marry. I want to become something first and then get marry. someone please help me i don't know what to do

Answer 1

I am an Indian male, living in the US, and my parents have suggested the same thing for me too.  How old are you?  Are you living in India?  I really understand what you are saying.  You should make something of yourself before you get married.  Even in the best cases when people find the person they want to mary, and if it doesn't work out, and one partner doesn't have the skills/career to support themselves they are put in a really bad position.  My parents want to find someone for me too, but like you they are very much oppostie of me.  My advise, leave the house, get a job, you may have to struggle for a year or two.  Figure out what you want to do.  Go to college, get a job in a field of your choosing, etc. Then, if you want to marry, date, and find someone on your own.

Answer 2

tell ur family u wanna meet this guy and then if u like him tell ur family u want to get to know him before u guys tie the knot. if you don't like him then have a time after dinner and have a nice talk to them if they still do not listen either give them the silent treat or tell them plz listen to me i have heard what u said now let me talk.