My (now ex)best friend is dating my little brother!!! How can I get through this?!?

Question

My brother met my best friend on facebook and they are only 14 and they decided to date which is fine. Its facebook after all! If never thought they were going to meet!

Then she came over. I tried not to make a big deal out of it. But when she started tickling and touching him that's where I thought I was about to explode!! I kept quiet. Then she wanted me to take a picture of them making out. On the outside I smiled and kept saying no but, inside I was screaming at the top of my lungs AND really to claw her stupid eyes out!

The worst part is when they went up to the attic. I came up there a few minutes later and they looked like they were doing something. But I didn't want to know. THEN she asked me AGAIN if I could take a picture of them making out to put up on facebook! I laughed and said I just couldn't do it. Trying to not make a big deal out of it. She kept asking and then tried to take the picture herself. My brother supported her throughout all of this.

Then they wanted me to go downstairs and there was NO WAY I was about to do that! So then my (now ex) bestfriend told me coldly. "Then we'll go downstairs." This is MY house too! And it certainly isn't hers!

I know that this relationship won't last and, I know that they are growing up and learning or whatever, but this is making me extremely uncomfortable and I don't want them doing something that they may regret! Like s*x!

Fellow yahooanswerers, what do you think I should do?

yours truly,

Ashley

Answer 1

I really enjoyed reading this. Just chill out.

Answer 2

Ughhhhhhhhh

I have two younger sisters (17 and 19) and I know exactly what you mean about wanting to stop them from doing stupid things like having s*x too young etc.

But.. The thing is, eventually you guys are going to be older and he IS going to be in relationships and having s*x and eventually he'll date a girl that you end up being really good friends with. You have to find a way to deal with the idea so why not start now?

You don't have to get involved with picture-taking and stuff like that, just leave when that kind of thing starts.  And you know that this girl is a good person, right? Because she used to be your best friend. Even though you're mad at her now, there are definitely reasons why you liked her and your brother probably sees those same things. He could be with some crazy chick who's a mess and who you hate (not just because she's dating him).  

Answer 3

tell your parents. i'm sure they wouldnt like the idea of your 14 yr old brother making out and/or having s*x