My older brother hates me??

Question

I'm the youngest of all my bvrothers & sisters I have 4 older sibling but my oldest brother MIKE hates me... he calls me the b*****d child because my mom cheated on my stepdad with my dad and thats how I was born...I never even met my dad before I consider my stepdad my dad just like the rest of my older sibling but my older brother doesn't like me becasue hhe says that I was a mistake and that everyone else wasn't!! I tried to tell my mom he said that but she won't listen to me!! everytime I'm around him he gives me dirty looks & sometimes he does things to me that I don't like... it makes me feel very uncomfortable around him but I dont want to make him madder!!! He's moving out next year because he just turned 18 and is going to college but i want him to like me before he goes should I let him do more things to me so he'll like me more or should I just leave him alone and treat him the same way he treats me...I'm gonna miss him...I'm 12 years old and he's 18 amd I think that's maybe why we dont connect either

Answer 1

tell him if he doesn't like you, tell him that your going to beat him up when your an adult, just lift plenty of weights.

Answer 2

Ok you need to stop letting him do things to you RUN!!Your Mom really needs to stop this if you can't get her to listen contact someone who can a friend's parent or something. Your brother is an *** sorry to say it but its true. Don't let him do things to you who cares if he doesn't like you he's bad news trust me your better off. Good Luck dear and don't sink down to there level. My prayers are with you.

Answer 3

Your bro is mean, pls keep telling your mom that Mike is making life unbearable, she should understand, if your mom wont listen, ask her friend or someone close to her that Mike is frustrating you. Next year is not too far but you have a right to be protected from your bro's hate. Plase dont revenge. Your mom has the solution, insist.

May God continue to give you grace to live with your bro-hater, in the meantime.

All the best.

Answer 4

Your lucky you have a brother. I'd do anything. It stinks being an only child. >:(

Answer 5

tell ur mom go see a counselor

Answer 6

i have the same problem as you.. i don't know what to do :(

Answer 7

Keep trying to tell your mom. She needs to know! Try and see if you can sit down and talk with your brother. Don't treat him like he treats you, it will make it worse. Just don't give up!! ^__^

Answer 8

hes an *** , let him go.

Answer 9

First of all, tell Mike that this is not your fault at all. You didn't choose to be born... Its your moms fault! But its too late of course.

Second, ask Mike how he would feel if he were in your shoes... and tell him how much you like him and respect him although you know that he hates you.

I hope this helps...

Answer 10

Leave him alone! You are NOT a mistake, tell him God doesn't make mistakes. The mistake was that your Mother conceived you out of a different relationship than the way he was conceived. It doesn't make you any less or any more important than him and vice versa. People who think the way he thinks, have a weird way of looking at life. There are very many famous men/women who have been conceived the same way you have. Don't let him bully you. Tell him you are what you are, and he is what he is. He either loves you or he doesn't. But tell him no matter what, you will always love him and then say no more.

Answer 11

Thats a confusing situation. I know this might seem awkward but when you said he does stuff to you is it bad stuff like abuse. If so tell your parents right away! If not just be nice but he sounds like a jerk so just ignore him!  

Answer 12

he's sounds like such a jerk. ignore him, just ignore him because he obviously has some issues being that he's the oldest and that he doesn't like the fact that your mom cheated on your stepdad with another guy. i would be pretty mad too but @ my mom, not you.