My older friend told me, my 14 year old little sister

Question

is having s*x with her 17 year old boyfriend he's my age and said she might be pregnat that's my little sisters first real boyfriend should i tell my parents or take her to a clinic?

Answer 1

I would tell the parents because they should be the ones to deal with this.  I have a sister and if this happened to her then I would talk to her about telling mom and dad.  Its there responsibility as parents to deal with mess.  but you sister is too young to be having s*x.  way to young i think

Answer 2

take her to a clinic before you tell your parents

avoid all the un-necessary drama

Answer 3

Take her to a clinic and then talk to her dont tell your parents until it get even worse.

Answer 4

take her to a clinic

help her out ..

put your self in her shoes what would you want her to do  

Answer 5

If I was her father I would want to know. Tell your parents. Let THEM take her to a clinic.  

Answer 6

Talk to her. Then, if she is get your parents involved.

She may not like you for awhile but, at least you will not lose your parents trust. You should always put your sisters safety first.

Answer 7

just talk to her and ask her about it and tell her that you could take her to a clinic if she is not pregnant and you could also help her get birth control if she decides to continue although it would be the right thing to tell your parents it is your sister and sisters look out for each other so just try to help  her out good luck with it

Answer 8

Take her to a clinic.  Make shoure that she is or is not pregnant.  Then talk to your parents about it.  She needs your parents now more than ever.  They need to talk to her and not yell at her.  She is too young to be having s*x.  She is that the age that peer pressure can influance her the most.  Your parents need to let her know that they are open for talk.  And if they can't do that then you need to.  Good l**k!

Answer 9

i agree, take her to the clinic to be sure first.

Answer 10

Speaking as a parent you should go to your parents. Speaking as a big sister you should go to your parents. I would emphasize to them that it is a rumor not an absolute fact and let them take it from there. Even if she is not pregnant they need to talk to her and get her on birth control. This situation is too much for big sis to handle, and could cause problems between you and your parents.

Answer 11

Have a talk with your sister and get the facts from HER before jumping to any conclusions. You don't know that you're friend isn't lying or just passing on a rumor she/he heard. Talk to your sister. If she is having a problem, take her to a clinic.