My older sister copies me? Help?

Question

My older sister is 16 and I am 14 we have sort of the same style aeropostale abercrombie hollister and stuff but i'll go into the stores and find a lot of stuff i like. She will go get some of the exact same things as me but the writing may be a different color. I have started warning her not to buy the same stuff i do, but she says I CAN BUY WHATEVER I WANT. Also I will pick out stuff for myself and my mom will be like oh that would look good on Katie. I also bought a pair of converse shoes at the end of last year and now she bought almost the same ones but they were from wet sea. I feel like she is stealing my life. She added my friends on facebook and I just want her to get her own life. She also bought us both the exact same shirt at the mall. what can i do to stop this??

Answer 1

how do you know shes copying you she could just like the same shirt as you and like the same friends  

Answer 2

A lot of things from Abercrombie are pretty much the same style. It's not so much that your sister is copying you, or trying to "steal your style" as she just doesn't have a lot of other choices to make. Also, yes, your sister does have the right to choose what she wants to buy and dress herself with, and you don't have a say in the matter, unfortunately.

My advice, try to shop at different stores. Or make something that was old new again, maybe even make your own clothes. Sure, it'll take a little work and a lot of creativity, but at least it will stop your sister from trying to copy you. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

did you try to talk to her personally?

and tell her that you want your privacy and you want to be different from her?

i'd try that.

and when she copies you,

just think of it as a compliment.

she seems to like your sense of style

and she wants to use it too.

maybe you could go shopping with her one time

and like help her pick out clothes that match her?

i really hope everything works out (:

Answer 4

well i dnt rly kno what to say

usually its the little sister copying the older one

Answer 5

Get over it.

Answer 6

may be ur styles and all matches coz ur related..

and whats wrong in doing that?? my younger sisters copies me... in fact they are just wanna be like me.. I am Idol to them.. so u should be happy tht ur sis is coping or whatever..

Answer 7

She seems to like your style! I would take that as a compliment. She just wants you to like her more or something. Or maybe she just wants to be like you because she thinks you are awesome!

Answer 8

if you dont want her copying you anymore . . buy an outfit you KNOW she wouldnt dare wear and wear it otherwise theres nothing you can really do. hey i would like that. we would be able to swap clothes and all. just be thankful you have a sister. i on the other hand have three older brother and wish i had a sister!!

Answer 9

all of aeropostale and abercrombie clothes are the same so shes not copying you.

if they werent chuck taylors shes not copying you

if your life consists of only material possesions and facebook i suggest rethinking your life.