My older sister is a big jerk?

Question

I am 14 years old. My older is 16. Apparently she calls me fat, but really, I'm very skinny and I have a very fast metabolism. I can't help eating so much, but my sister sometimes calls me fat. I want her to stop calling me things like a "fat lard". I am very annoyed by this. DX

Answer 1

If you are 14 and your sister is 16, that means that you are both minors.   Since she is the older sister, it is her job to look out for you.  That is what an older sister should be doing.    

We'll, she ain't doing her job and "enough is enough", it is time to tell your mother and father about her mental/verbal abuse.   She has no right to talk to you like that and you also have to show her respect, but AFTER you tell your parents and she is disciplined for her wrong behavior towards you.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Umm..

Cry?

Answer 3

Well what is the Question?

But why don't you Rip Her Hair out?

Answer 4

if your sis is fat then she is makin her self feel better and just be like i wouldnt be talkkin then look at her stomach or she is jealous and tell her to stop being jealous and if it wont stop tell your parentals

Answer 5

Hey maybe its cause ur sis dosent have a very fast metabolism and you can stuff your face and stay stick thin whilst she cant eat chocolate or crisps because shes dieting or thinks shes to fat... Hope i helped!

Answer 6

If what she says toward you bothers you to the point it has here then it is because you have let it bother you, not because she has done it.

Answer 7

Even if you were fat, there is no reason for anyone to cal anyone fat!  A sister should be supportive of you but apparently she would rather be nasty.

I know it may not help but just ignore her.  Tell her that even if you were fat, (which you are not), weight is something you can correct however she is a jerk and that is permanent!

She is probably jealous that you can eat a lot and not gain weight and she cannot do the same.  It sounds like jealousy pure and simple.

Answer 8

Either ignore her or confront her about it.  Ask her why she finds it necessary to call you fat.  Also try talking to your parents, tell them you've had enough of your sister calling you fat.  Chances are your sister maybe a bit jealous of you.