My oldest daughter is 18 yrs old and shes dating a 14 yr old boy, should i tell her that she shouldn't?

Question

My oldest daughter is 18 yrs old and shes dating a 14 yr old boy, should i tell her that she shouldn't?

Answer 1

yes cause that's sick! And she could get arrested.

Answer 2

I am just wondering what an 18 year old girl sees in a 14 year old boy.as said previously if it were switched around the boy would already be locked up for statutory rape.I would ask your daughter what she sees in him because at her age I highly doubt she knows what real love  in a relationship is.I would encourage her to go places to meet guys her own age that would be closer to her maturity wise.There is no way this little 14 year old boys is close to her maturity wise,boys naturally take longer to mature than girls.

Answer 3

Yes it's not legal and plus why would she want to date a 14 yr old if 18yrs old, i'm sorry but it's wrong you should tell her not to!!

Answer 4

thats a bad thing when youre a teen u can date someone two year younger or older than you but whenb your 18 you can only legally date a seventeen year old it would be considerred saggatorry rape she can become  a sexual predetor and be a type 2 s*x offender u should seek help

Answer 5

Duh, that's against the law mommy.

Answer 6

Basically, yes. Why is she dating a 14-year old boy in the first place? That's jailbait for sure.

Answer 7

Personally I would definitely be worried about that.  If they are sexually active she could go to jail,or his parents could press charges if they were too, and of course she's probably not going to tell you that and will probably get mad at you.  But she needs to know that you are looking out for her and keeping her best interest in mind.

Answer 8

yes

Answer 9

Depends on the boy and his maturity level. Just check him out, see how he is. With an age gap as big as that, theres a real doubt it will last very long. She'll realize she can be dating people her age.

Also, shes 18, she can make her own decisions. But still, check him out. Advise her, but you don't need to tell her what she can and can't do.

Answer 10

yeah she can get into trouble for that. he is way to young for her

Answer 11

Yes, you should tell her that it is illegal. She needs to be dating people her own age.

Answer 12

Yes, it's totally illegal and what is she thinking dating a kid..  

Answer 13

When I was 14 I dated an 18 year old boy my parents never said anything and even had him to dinner. His parents had me to lunch and his Dad was a police officer - ha. After 3 months he broke up with me because I couldent go night clubbing. He tried to come back when I was 18 but I was well over him by then. I would just hope it runs it course quickly without too much fuss. You should tell her though that it would be illegal for her to sleep with him. Apart from that their may not be much you can do. Im glad my parents never kicked up a fuss because I have fond memories and we never had s*x so it was fairly innocent. There are some obvious barriers such as he cant go to pubs, nightclubs, is probably still at scholl and not working ect so it may wear thin pretty quickly at that age as really they are both still young. Goodluck the young will rebel its in their nature! Tell her to keep it innocent then let it go and relax.

Answer 14

ABSOLUTELY!  What if the 14 year old was your daughter and she was dating the 18 year old boy?