My other friend came back and now i feel all left out?

Question

my other friend who is also friends with my best friend came back from holiday a few days ago and ever since i have felt so left out. My best friend hs been really leaving me out and then yesterday they both just turned up at my door yesterday having a great time and laughing, and well they just werent letting me join in. And then my "best frind " keeps going out with my other friend without telling me but my friend is inviting me. I am going but today i didnt but i was supposed to be meeting them later and they are still in town and i can only get a lift there before my dad goes to work which is soon. So basically they dont care if i cant go. :(

and when my friend was on holiday...now it seems as if my best friend was using me. She kept begging me to go into town with her and now she isnt even letting me know that she is. I know that she would have missed my friend bu completly blanking me is abit out of order i think.

i dont want to tell her about it because otherwise we will get into an argument and i hate it, so basically what should i do ?

i feel like breaking into tears sometimes, and its ust making me feel really depressed, i have got other friends i can go out with but then they will come

so what should i do ?

Answer 1

go with your new friends.

i have nofriends. so be happy you have some.

Answer 2

If they are leaving you out, ignore it. I know it's really hard, 'cause I've been there, but sooner or later, one of them will come back to you. I was the one who came back off holiday and my two best friends ignored me all the time. Now they're the popular ones. But I made a great friend, and every now and again they come to talk to me. So wait, and in time, everything should go back to the way it was. :]

<3

Answer 3

I think its about time you moved on from her.

You have other friends that you dont know too well right?

Well go out with them and make more friends!!

If shes moving on, why should you feel used and left out?

Then talk to her about it, but careful not to sound desperate like,

Why dont you like me anymore??

Say something like, every since my friend has come back from holidays, you have totoally changed to when she wasent here. All of a sudden you only go out with her, but i feel stupid because when you needed me i was there, if you dont resepct me then forget about us being friends.,

Show her who's boss!!!

Good luck! :)

Answer 4

Its not worth feeling depressed.

When they are laughing and playing around try and join them and make jokes and w/e. But don't change who you are just so they will want to hang out with you.

If they keep doing what they do then talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel. You don't know if she will take it good or bad. But if she takes it bad then you could still b unhappy and hang around with them or you could find new friends.

If you don't know what to tell her say-

Ever since your friend came back, I have been excluded in the group and I sort of feel left out. Before, it was great because I didn't get left out. I feel like before you were using me because now when she comes back I have been left out of everything. I hope you understand I just feel depressed and sad all she time. (Now if she doesn't get that what's the point?)

It's not worth crying about it because you aren't the mean person in this situation.

Good Luck!!! If you need more advice feel free to email me.