My parents are being mean.. what should i do?

Question

they're so suckered into the whole "my teenage daughter is the devil" mindset that they don't even realize that i don't have an attitude problem! ever since i turned 15 it's like they're jumping the gun and being mean to me first. any advice?

Answer 1

well .... with my parents they flip on me when ever i do even the littlest thing wrong.... ever sense i turned 13 so its be too years...i just think they are worried i will be like my brother and just randomly flip out.... (family known for anger).... when they p**s me off like really badly i just go  to the bathroom and get a hot wash rag then go to my room shut the door and lay on my bed with the wash rag on my face...idk why it helps me but i do it..... oh well hope i helped

Answer 2

Ha I have had that too. What helps is if your occasionally really really nice. then when they are annoying and you get annoyed they will realise they are pissing you off.

You could always like get a little present for your mum so she cant be mean to you!

Or talk to her about how you feel. you could even show this question to her so she realises.

Answer 3

hate to say it but it must be your hormones because you like me are teenagers. you may be a girl but that is not effective . you don't know you doing it because your mindset. it is also not a stereotype because your a teenager. here is how i know why. well my future gf and in a way best friend or forward slash/soulmate has ever been so sweet . this is why i choosed her  to become my best friend and soulmate. but i guess that's partly mainly because she is beautiful but that's not the point. point is when she reached her teenager yrs she has become a 2nd person like with split personality's and i was in total shock even through i am a hypocrite lol i did not expect it from her. not that it's one rule for one and one for another but because she suppose to  be an innocent female lol  she has been arguing and i am not sure if she swore but being very judgmental too and b4 she was a yes person always said yes too sweet to say no if she wanted to say no she would say maybe. but she is being really opinionated since she turned a teenager. she don't  argue with me but it ain't like she listens to me LOL. SHE CAN BICKER WITH ME THROUGH I AM ASSUME I AM PICKING ON HER  AND GO PRIVATELY CRY I GUESS. BUT SHE'S NO CRYBABY. she is a virgin  because she has always been quiet but not shy. a little however but i am assuming that's breaking. lot's of guys are act that age so she gets a lot of attention , but as long as i am not there and they say really rude stuff and harass her i am not bothered much.  anyway as i was saying because she is at that age the word s*x SHIFTS FROM HER SUB CONSCIOUS MIND as it does with all teenagers. she was too sweet to wanna hear know she knew it back in the day but she wasn't dumb and obviously did but dan't bother saying it or  studying it  even in her own head. so there has been lots of rumors she was having s*x with people but i think they all turned out to be false. i am not that close with her physically but mentally but not physically to talk about if her Hyman broke or anything like that as i am a guy and not her bf that is the only problem. i guess and talking about it openly through . despite she is a teen she is thinking about it. all teens were one step ahead so they can talk about it now. but she will get to that stage with me eventually one day. HOPEFULLY.  she was with her friend and even said this guy was out his mind and burst out laughing in front of him because he asked if her and her friend would wanna go to a party. i mean i know i love her and everything but HOW RUDE ! i must say i am with her all the way but i am not her bf yet so not fully and me and my mom believe that was not so sweet as her and teenager or not , not at all acceptable. so my point is we teenagers and it's  normal we can't control it  if that seems perverted or not !!!!  we just gotta accept who we are and to all those adults that are hypocrites and can't understand why we good . duh it's BECAUSE WE TEENAGERS AND WE CAN'T HELP IT  believe the truth you know it's right !!!!

Answer 4

I know it sucks right? Well the best you can do is try not to be around them, and when you are, cut out the sarcasm...if its not nice, dont say it. I got over the hump with my parents about a year ago, trust me it really works. Best of luck!

And also, dont go out rebelling and get caught...that would just make things alot worse...and be smart with your friends.

Answer 5

hey parents are hard to raise...lol...if things are really bad go to a therapist and get help.

Answer 6

I'm the mother of a teenage daughter and I love her dearly but she does have an attitude problem.  Not always, but when she's with certain people her demeanor changes and she treats her family members like c**p.  She doesn't even realize it's happening but I have no tolerance for that.  

Maybe you do have an attitude that you don't notice?  Your parents respond to the tone you give them.  

We had a breakthrough this summer.  One of my daughters friends acts one way when she's with most people, but when she's with one in particular she gets major attitude.  My daughter noticed it and told me she doesn't like that friend when she's around the other person because doesn't act like herself...I told her that's how she is with certain people too.  

Right now school isn't back in session yet and I have my kid back but I dread next week when she goes back there and I have to get the phone calls from teachers because she's giving them attitude in class....trying to impress those friends again. *sigh*

Just watch your tone.  Parents don't just wake up one day and decide to treat their kids like the devil.  Teenagers do seem to wake up one day with a totally different outlook and we, as parents, don't have to put up with eye rolling, back talking, walking away when being spoken to and being called a loser.  

Answer 7

The next time you are in that situation, try to stay calm and ask them exactly what it is that you did or said.  After they tell you, ask them how should you have responded to the situation.  If they refuse to answer your questions, tell them you are trying to make things better between you and them, and you need their feedback to do that.

This will show them that you are trying to be mature about this and may even change their attitude towards you.

Good luck.

Answer 8

You are a teenager and not to be mean, I haven't run across one yet who doesn't have an attitude problem.  It's your hormones and you will understand this one day when you have children of your own.  You didn't state the fact of "why" they were being mean...so how can we say if they are or if they are not with no information, all we have is YOUR word that they are being mean???  Confused.

Answer 9

You are now entering to the life of adulthood, this is how life is unfortunately. This the start of it, you will get used to it eventually. I am saying this because when you enter the workforce this is how it will be, you will be told when to do it and sometimes how to do it. You will have opinions, sometimes you will be able to announce them, sometimes you will not. Unfortunately this is life.