My parents are fighting and it's really scaring me... what do I do?

Question

I think it'll be ok, but I'm still scared that they'll kill each other or something. Both of them are really scary when they're mad. =(

Answer 1

My parents fight alot too.

Just go to your room. Thats what i do, and i stay out of the way so i don't have to get in trouble.

Answer 2

They're adults right, just do something that calms you down take deep breathes, even cry if you need to. Just let them solve it and stay out of the room that they are in. And if you are religious you can pray.

Answer 3

Think about it like this if your parents just agreed with everything, and they would think the same, act the same talk the same, would that be kinda boring. They are fighting because everyone has there on opinion on every thing. They are just trying to work out the problem that they are having at the time. I know that sometimes you might think they are fighting and they might be. Just go to your room listen to music or talk to a friend and close your door. Things will get better.My parents would do the same thing and the next day they were acting as if nothing ever happened the day before. I know that they love each other and me they just needed to work things out. Don't worry as long as they love each other and you every things is ok.

Answer 4

Thats awful that they fight in front of you. When one of your parents is calm tell one of them that you trust. Or do you have grandparents, aunt/uncles or another close family friend? Tell them and maybe that can give you some personal advice on how to deal with it, or maybe you can go live with them if your parents home is too toxic.

Answer 5

I would speak to your school psychologist about this, you need to learn to develop coping mechanisms; and it probably would be wise to anonymously report to your local police department that you have observed evidence of domestic violence in your place of residence.

Answer 6

When they're not fighting, tell them don't get mad but it scares you when they fight. Just tell them how you feel about it.