My parents blame me for alot of things

Question

well my parents always blame me for a lot of things like today i my bro was eating and watching tv and i was sitting in a weird position on the chair and i tried to move and went in front of the tv and my brother started yelling and i didnt even try to then my dads like god d**n it chelsea your not goin tonight (to my bros football practice) and my mom was downstairs so when she came up she just thought i was tryin to pick on him so she yelled at me and i ran up to my room and started to cry and when i sing my bro yells at me cuz i annoy him he says and my parents yell at me and when my bro wants something my parents almost always say yes when i ask for like a game or something they say no they only say yes when i buy like food or clothes and my bro never cleans but when he does he gets to have a friend over or they say thank u or something and when i clean something i usually get nothin i love them alot but it just hurts i cry alot cuz of them even tho i know they love me and i love them i get blamed for everything! please help

Answer 1

Your brother is trying to defend his grounds. He wants all the attention and right now he's getting it. What you need to do is have a talk with your parents and make them realize that blaming you for everything to make your brother happy is hurting you.

Just be honest with your parents.

Also don't let your brother take advantage of you. Until you have that talk, try to stay out of his way.

It will be hard, but don't let the words get to you. Words are just words.

Good luck!

Answer 2

it happens to me the same..  i dont get any respond from my parents for doing good stuff....but whenever my brother does something they begin talking gud abt him......

m still just ignoring these situations...and i am disturbd too..

well the thing is .... some misunderstandings happens in families...try to think the solutionn instead of crying for an hour...

u can talk frankly to ur parents about this.... and listen carefully what they say....

Answer 3

have a talk with your parents  let them know that they are hurting your feelings tell them that they should treat you and your brother the same way  

Answer 4

I know what you have been through!

Sometimes my parents do the same thing

all you have to do is calmly tell the what really happend,dont yell or anything...trust me, it works!

:)