Hi - never posted on here before but feel I could really do with some advice as I'm at a loss really what to do anymore. I'm 32 years old and live with my husband and two children. My parents live about 20 minutes away from us - we see them every so often although I am starting to feel less and less like getting together with them, and have probably felt this way for a few years now. This is mainly to do with them constantly preaching their vegan and christian way of life to us. I guess what has really tipped my patience and anger over the edge lately is my parents not only preaching their vegan-ism to us all, but actually taking my two children (aged 11 and 6) into a farm shop yesterday and showing them the meat/hanging 'dead burning flesh' (their words) and then showing them the live animals outside and asking them which they would prefer seeing....! We don't eat a great deal of meat - we actually were vegetarians not so long ago, but chose to eat meat again, being very careful to buy free range now, with a great deal of thought and research going into where we buy it from. My children don't eat meat - yet - but I was hoping, given time they may choose to eat the same as us sometimes (their choice). I know after yesterday there is no way my youngest will even try it now, I feel that he was even turning his nose up at my Sunday Roast today! I have told my parents before now that if they continue to preach and shove their beliefs down our throats I'm really going to have to reconsider whether I want to to see them anymore - which I feel terrible about! I am just at the end of my tether now, and seem to spend half of my life trying to work out how to deal with them, and what to say to them, and it's getting pretty depressing to say the least! Any help or advice greatly appreciated :-(
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