My parents dont let me sleepover at friends houses?

Question

how can i get them to be less protective?

i dont mean to sound like a baby or anything .. but i've jsut always wanted to go to one. and i feel left out

i guess their excuse is what makes me so mad.

"no you will not have s*x"

"i dont even like tampons!"

"their dad will rape you"

"divorced"

"their brother will rape you"

"only child"

"their mom will rape you"

"WHWAT?!?!?!?"

"dont raise your voice at me!"

any way i can get them to change their mind?

Answer 1

that suxs.. have them talk to other parents

Answer 2

understand what they want to hear and tell them that first. dont ask for it right off the bat. literally sit them down and say stuff like, "i feel like you guys have done a really good job at parenting me and i seriously love it. i know how to make good choices now and i am able to be much more mature amongst my peers and friends. even my teachers and friends parents are noticing how much i have been growing up lately and i love that i am able to be my own person." then smile and leave after they say they are welcome. a long time later say "you know, i understand that there are "dangers" from having my own responsibilities, but i think you guys have taught me enough to be able to responsibly make my own decisions, and do it smartly, and i was wondering if i could spend the night with a friend. i want to prove to you too how well you guys have raised me." then smile.

im sure that should work.

if not, i seriously think your screwed.

Answer 3

It could be worse.  When I was your age, I was sold to a mean sea captain and was learned the life of the sea on a whaling ship.  I can still hear the cries of the gulls and the lookout calling from the mainmast, "Thar she blows, The Great White Whale!"

Answer 4

hahahaha those are funny *** h**l,

well get your parents to meet with your friends parents so they would get to trust them more

Answer 5

You never know it might be the dog to do it.  These days you can't trust any one.  They will make you feel sorry for them and that's when they will make there move.  I see there point but it doesn't hurt for you to have sleep overs.  That's getting a little to protective.

Answer 6

Well every parent is like that even my mom is nice and she wont let me go spend the night at my friends house and guess what its just 3 houses down from us!!

Answer 7

Good girls wont sleepover other houses unless it's really important. Simply, your parents are just want you to be safe and they not really trust you at all. First, you should focus on what things you need to do to let your parents trust you.

Answer 8

Have your friends parents call yours and let them get to know each other!!! but really your parents are very ignorant[no offense]

Answer 9

Uhh guess ur parents should meet ur friend's parents!! n ur parents love u very much!!

Answer 10

that's so terrible, it use to be the same to me. my parents think i'm "too old" for sleepovers. or that i'm sleeping over at some dudes house. you should sit down with them and have the trust talk, that's really important. from this day i can't sleepover at ANYONES, not even my cousins. but i'm able to have people over. they're your parents, they want what's best for you.

Answer 11

have them at your house several times before you go over,

have you parents get to know theirs.

Answer 12

you have not said how old you are ?? ..I like to know the parents of my child's friends before I let them go ..and I like to feel my child is responsible ..do you act like you can take care of your self ..do you help around the house and act responsible ?? those things may help but some parents are just not able to let go and I guess you just have to live with that ..till you are older anyway ..

Answer 13

i think they love you TOO MUCH you should SHOW them that u know what to do incase that happens the same thing is happening tome right now my parents dont let me sleep at friends houses

well how old are you?