My parents r getting a DIVORCE!!!?

Question

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY I THINK IT'S MY FAULT!! i don't even no where to start i feel terrible and overcome by some kind of darkness and i feel like i wanna die i just need help from people like u to help my mom and my brothers and sisters to overcome dis because i know she will raise us better than we ever did with my dad i luv him but i have no idea y he would leave us..... im sitting all alone with my clothes on top of me in my closet i need all the advice you can give me so please help my family overcome this horrible bump in the road!!!

Answer 1

first off, why is this in entertainment, second off sorry.

Answer 2

First of all its NOT your fault, your parents have fallen out of love and it would be wrong for you them to stay unhappily together. It will get easier, trust me.

Answer 3

Sumnma Chick!

Please understand, first, it is absolutely not your fault! AT ALL.

Things will get better in time, they really will. Just be supportive of your parents decision, esp if you stay w/ your mom, she will need your support.

My best childhood friend went thru it all, she raised two boys who are now great successes.....

No one really knows what goes on behind 'closed doors'---happy to hear your parents kept it from you & your siblings.

Stay focused on positives, also, what your interests are, help your siblings do the same, & then y'all will shine.

Divorce, esp w/ kids, is very very tough. Again, remember, it is not your fault. Some parents either 'fall out of love', or 'just one never grew up to take responsibility'---etc, but whatever the problem is, don't ever think it's your fault at all.

And yet, like in my friend's case, she met the most wonderful man.....another positive. Everyone in life deserves true happiness, & I am sure you would want that for your mom & dad. Yes, it is painful, but when 'one door closes, a better one always opens'. God Bless & you will be in my thoughts & prayers.