My parents want to kick me out. What Can i Do Legally and/or Mentally To Get Back At Them?? Please Help Me

Question

alright, so my parents are ultra douches and want to kick me out if i dont follow their insanely g*y rules. i thought for a while that i might be able to handle them. but i cant. a few nights ago my dad took all my ****, put it in a garbage and threw it on my doorstep just because i was 30 minutes late for my cerfew..(which was at 12pm) i had to force my way in so i wouldnt be stranded outside with a garbage bag of cloths. i dont want to deal with these old fashion parents of mine. ive had enough. i wouldnt miss their cheap ghetto *** living anyways and im guessing the wouldnt miss me either. i hope not atleast..

anyways, enuff rambling.

this is what id like to know and find out.

1. i would like to move with a different random family.

no group homes, no military school. and no bothering my friends for a place to stay. are there such programs, services that could help me find a place to stay??

2. Are there any legal actions i can take to maybe..

-get them to pay me money cause im still underage

-get them to stop threatning me maybe? lol

-maybe theres something i should know that i wouldnt know

-what are some things police can and cannot do to me in this situation

well thats about it.

please. help me, give me advice, constructive critcizm can help to.

i just want out, without ******* over my life.

Answer 1

hmm... maybe if you grow up and follow their "insanely g*y rules" then just maybe you wouldn't have this problem, now would you?

You are a very militant and rebellious person, from how you speak. And living by your parent's rules isn't being old fashioned it's being responsible. Maybe a dose of military school would do you well...  

Answer 2

Since your under 18  your parents cannot legally kick you out of their house. I would go to social services in your town and talk to them and they might be able to help you.

Answer 3

talk  to somebody

Answer 4

hmm... maybe if you grow up and follow their "insanely g*y rules" then just maybe you wouldn't have this problem, now would you?

You are a very militant and rebellious person, from how you speak. And living by your parent's rules isn't being old fashioned it's being responsible. Maybe a dose of military school would do you well...

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He didn't ask for a lecture from another person like his parents. He asked what he can do with the current situation he's faced with. People like you are the reason why adults don't understand the current generation of youths and think they are so troubled and juvenile. True kids certainly have their problems, but don't pretend to understand what they are just because you were 17 once. Some kids quite simply mature faster than others, but a lot of parents fail to see it or choose not to recognize it. Many parents are blinded by the law that 18 is mature 18 is an adult, others simply care way too much about their precious kids and won't let go even when they are 18. Plain and simple, 18 doesn't mean ****. It is just a general age that MOST people are mature enough to handle leaving home. Some kids are mature enough to handle themselves at 16 while other people never reach that point in their entire lives. Its the job of the parent to know their kids well enough to tell when they actually mature. 18 is nothing. The only reason military school straightens people out is because 1. they are usually forced to go there and 2. they get respect pretty much brainwashed into their heads which then leads adults to say "well he certainly straightened out, he has a job and he is such a gentleman!" - Congrats you have now joined the endless ranks of average male turn around and you get to give speeches to kids when your older about how you turned your life around. Not that some people dont need it but the majority are just confused and need some direction in life and overbearing parents definately don't help. Military anything is the easy way out, the ticket to a guaranteed average lifestyle complete with white picket fence and kids. You might as well be a robot.

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As for your question good sir,

The best thing i think you can do right now is get a job if you don't have one and get good grades. Show them you are capable of supporting yourself, you have a future, and that you are mature. Dont ask them for anything. Don't ask your mom to make you lunch, do your own laundry, do everything yourself, remove them from your life as best as you can while still having to legally live under their roof. There are options for people under 18 who want to escape tyrannical parents, but most of them aren't really good. About your idea to live with a new family, ask yourself this, what happens when they start throwing rules at you? Its a lot more akward to yell at someone elses parents. As for the **** they pull with throwing your stuff outside and similar things like that. Do not let them do that. Flip out, go nuts if you have to, that is your stuff, make it clear that you want to be respected and that you want to recieve respect in order to give it. You might get your *** kicked but take it and deal with it. Just because you got a black eye from your pops doesnt mean you dont get pissed the next time he throws your stuff on the lawn. Pain is fleeting and you might show your old fashioned dad that you mean business about him showing you some courtesy if you take a few lumps and come back for more. Basically, dont run from this problem because it is going to shape the rest of your life. Face it head on, grow up, show them you are ready for the real world and that you have a future. Knowing you have a future is very important to a parent, they constantly worry that you'll be mooching off mommy and daddy forever and it eats at them and makes them do stupid things like make a set of ridiculous rules hoping they will keep you in line. Make it clear that you're mature and you are to be respected.

Good Luck  

Answer 5

If you're living in someone's house, you're duty-bound to obey the rules of that establishment; common sense will tell you that. If you're under age and don't like the rules, running away will get you picked up and likely placed into a juvenile facility until you age out of the program. If you're over 18 and don't like the rules, simply get a job, pay your own way, get out and do your own thing. Your landlord won't give a d**n what time you get home as long a you have his rent before the fifth of the month each month.

Answer 6

some states it is 17. Now by law they have to give you 30 days to leave cause that has been your residence for how ever long.

Go to social services and see what they can do about it.

Answer 7

tthey cant do that