My parther is going without me with his collegues to pub!?

Question

Since i'm at his place he had never taken me to pub why he prefer to go with his colleagues than with me!

Answer 1

OMG!! Are you serious?

Let the guy have some fun without you.  Quit stressing out about it.  Maybe he just needs some time away from you.  I don't blame him, you seem a little needy.

Answer 2

they are all talking about you

ah no if your there everyday he may need to go with his mates for a change of scenery

escapism  (no offence)

also

im sure you like going around to your girlfriends places to talk about stuff you wouldnt normally talk about with your partner

do you and your partner have stimulating conversations about football and take the p**s out of each other

Answer 3

because he needs time to be himself not always just your partner. he's an individual and he likes his space as do many people. don't be so clingy, i'm sure he doesnt appreciate it. if you give him space he'll appreciate it and won't bother you about you going out with your friends. why don't you go out with some of your colleagues as well?

Answer 4

I have no idea.  I let my husband go out all the time with his friends.  I trust him 100% though, some couples have issues with trust.  I would just tell him you like to go to the pub too and tell him to make it a date with you next time!

Answer 5

are you saying he never takes you to the pub???

if you live with him now, he may want to reasure himself he still as little freedom.

Answer 6

Here is a question, have you expressed this to your partner? Sometimes the lack of acknowledging the other person's needs because of unawareness and not communicating it is what hurts. If you have a desire to go the pub with him tell him. Maybe you have expressed something previous to no let him ask you...an example of this is being a person who does not partake in drinking...If you want to go, express enthusiasm to go with him.