My partner and i are moving

Question

my partner and i are moving,and she tells me that she may have to take a job in a major city,I do not like major cities....so she says that i can live out of the city and she will come see me on weekends....that bothered me so bad,I understand that she may have to take a job in a major city....but,it hurts that she is so quick to just live without me...and it does not feel like she really loves me if she is so willing to leave me... I will still live there with her,it's just not my favorite place to be and i feel that it should definatly be a last resort to move to a major city.I mean we have been living together for over a year...

what should i do...any advice is appreciated,unless of course it is a moron amswer! lol

Answer 1

You guys aren't married so technically she can do what she wants. She should compromise and meet you in the middle but you should also understand she is trying to better her life....now maybe if you were married she would take it more seriously.  

Answer 2

I would be upset with this too.  If you guys were living together so far the chances or mariage are probably pretty close so decisions should be made together. If she wants to work in the city than find a place outside city limits and she can commute.  She should think of you too if she loved you and wanted you to be happy as well.