My partner has been showing less enthusiasm in bed?

Question

I've been dating my partner for over 1 year and the fun in the bedroom (or anywhere else) has been less than active. I've approached him about the situation, and have always initiated but have mostly received negative responses. Is there more too it than meets the eye?

Answer 1

Possibly.

Was it fun in the beginning?   You always initiate?  Even in the beginning of your relationship?

If you are not having fun together outside of the bedroom,  how can there be fun in it.   You got to have fun,  laugh,  enjoy doing things together,  share interests etc... if all of that is lacking then maybe it is time to re-evaluate your relationship with your partner.   Maybe his feelings have changed towards you.   What is keeping you together?

Also maybe your partner is just not into s*x that much,  or he may have a medical problem that is causing lower libido,  or he is stressed about something,   it could be a number of things.  I wouldn't immediately jump to the conclusion that there is someone else,  which I am sure you will receive such an answer.

Maybe it's time to move on.  Either way. I hope you can have fun again.  

Answer 2

For a guy, it usually means he is getting some on the side. If any of his habits has changed like activities outside the house without you, then you may need to approach him about this, if not, maybe the s*x is just boring and needs to be spiced up a bit!  

Answer 3

Maybe there is more to it, but I doubt it. Explain the fact of your labido and the need to explore.  It could be your partner is looking for more then a bedding down.  Maybe some sort of sign of a permanent relationship.

Answer 4

try a romantic dinner and something new and exciting, if that doesn't do something,maybe there is, but remember if your having doubts about how he is behaving maybe your not being your usual self either.