My partner is going on holiday with his mates yet again?

Question

Here's the thing, my boyfriend told me we would definately have a holidaythis year, so far he has had a trip to France with his mate which is fine, then i said when can we go away? he said not a chance now as he cant get time off work, so fair enough i can wait till next year, now he tells me he is going away again in October with his mates, i am really upset by this, he is always spending time with his mates, when i confront him about spending at least one day out of a month with me he thinks im being selfish, i dont see the point in having a relationship with him if he is all for his mates, i am considering leaving him, do you think it a selfish reason if he wants to spend all his spare time with mates? i mean he is in his mid 30's so not as if he's a child, i just think i could do much better than this, its making me miserable sitting in on my own all the time, i know you need time for friends but where do i fit into the equasion??

Thanks in advance x

Answer 1

Hi, I think your boy friend is really ignoring you and you are not wrong if leaving him. In our Asia a man can't even think to leave her grl once they commited in making love. I am really so sad to read these sort of problems of young grls. The boys offen departed from grils after using them for their needs. I also have a very good friend Sussane Zing in Switzerland she is having same problem as you. May God give you courage to bear this loss and be independent at your own. Please do not hesitate to communicate with me if any sort of help or sport is required to you. And it will be my pleasure to become your good friend. Take care of you.

Answer 2

here sweety,

dont make someone a priority if they are only going to make u an option;

I mean, unless his planning a suprise wedding for u and him with his mates help, theres no other reason to leave u behind and travel.

Dear (____rejectee's name here____ ),

I regret to inform you that you have been eliminated from further contention as my Mr. Right.

As you are probably aware, the competition was exceedingly tough and dozens of well-qualified candidates such as yourself also failed to make the final cut. I will, however, keep your name on file should an opening become available. So that you may find better success in your future romantic endeavors, please allow me to offer the following reason(s) you were disqualified from the competition:

___ The phrase "My Mates" has popped up far too often in conversation

___ Your last name is objectionable. I can't imagine taking it, hyphenating it, or subjecting my children to it.

__I made u a priority and u made me an option. The games on u babe.