My partner of 3 years on of realashionship has sent txt saying he had one night stand but still loves me?

Question

i love him but he is very jealous, and i am very insecure and and he tells me what to do, and i think he does it cos he cares. he walks out on me all the time and then said it was my fault but when he comes back he is very caring iam 39 he is 51 my freinds say i am good looking and can do better but all i want is for to be loved and has no confidense i could answer his txt now but i dont now what 2 do he wants 2 marry me and he was always asking me but i carnt just marry should i give him another chance because i still love him its a long story between us so cant say everything he is a jehovah witness

but what do. i have dislecsia it took a long time to write this and my first post

Answer 1

Leave him alone he sounds insecure and he wrong.He disrespected you by sleeping with another women.Move on.No since in letting him hurt you again.I think you said you have no confidence.Dont stay with him because you think thats all you can get. U can do better.

Answer 2

this relationship will be up and down and mostly down in time

This guy is no good, wake up!

If you want to settle then you get what you deserve.

Get a spine and lose the loser.

I don't care that he is your drug and gives you your fix time to time.

Who wants a man who walks out and blames you and cheats on you? Read your own question as though your mother, or your (imaginary) daughter, or a dear female friend to you wrote it. Why can't we love ourselves that much?!

Answer 3

I think that jealousy can be not healthy for a relationship first off. He puts you down and says it your fault that is not a true relationship either. I don't think you should give him another chance I think you gave enough chances to him. You stood by his side and I give you props for that.(Your title) Think about if he really cared for you he wouldn't of done it he would think twice about it. Sometimes when you love a person its best to let them go. They will still remain in your heart, but not physically or mentally just emotionally.

Answer 4

Depends. How much do you respect yourself and how much are you willing to put up with? He'll never change his ways.  

Answer 5

he cheated on you..whether it was a continuous thing or an one night stand..he controls you, is disrespectful and taking advantage of your being insecure..

i would tell him to get lost..you surely can find someone that will treat you the way you deserve..

theres good guys out there that will treat you alot better than this guy does so i would tell him its over..

yea you might have a history but you need to b happy...

dont marry this guy...hes already shown his character...do you want that for the rest of your life? listen to your friend..

good luck

Answer 6

He is emotionally abusive and no you don't need his mess! Leave him and get someone who appreciates you!

Answer 7

Get rid of him before he ruins your life.  He is a control freak and unstable and will make your life a living h**l if you allow it.  Check out some other models available and get somebody who doesn't carry so much emotional baggage.  Religion is also a bad thing to try to impose on somebody in an absolute form; you have freedom of choice so exercise your choice to participate or not.  You are not a doormat or slave; unless you bring it on yourself.  

Answer 8

dump him. you're in an abusive relationship. He's most definitely emotionally abusive--controlling, s******g around on you and then telling you about it, walking out on you and blaming you for all of the relationship problems.

He doesn't respect you and where there is no respect there is no real love. You're friends are right, you can do better. If you marry him then you will regret it.