My partners mum hates me?

Question

I've been nice to her each time i've met her, but shes told my boyfriend that i can't come over the house anymore because she doesn't like me. I don't think thats fair really, because she hasn't give a reason for it, what the h**l do i do?

Answer 1

ask ur boyfrend why, and if he dosent tell u, go up to their house, and ask her directly 'what is your problem with me?'

gd luck

Answer 2

nothing you can do is there just accept it and forget her for now at least

Answer 3

Does it really matter. Silly old hag, she's jealous. She needs to grow up. Is she on the bottle or drugs or something. Fecksake ! Whatsamatter with these people,

Avoid her all you can. Take pleasure in NOT having to go to her house. Just love your boyfriend even more, just to get on her nerves.

Answer 4

it happens a lot mothers never like there sons girlfriends it happenened to my wife as well so have just cut my mother out of our lives.

Answer 5

Don't worry about it, my mother- in -law  doesn't like me she talks about me and my kids(there not my husbands) behind our backs and tells his kids from his first marriage that I don't like them or want them in our house. I haven't been near his parents house now since last xmas and I'm going to keep it that way. Just ignore her she's not worth worring about.

Answer 6

Give it time.   A lot of couples go through that.

If you are right for him, she will come to terms with it.

Answer 7

Try to get her sat down with you and your boyfriend for a chat, try and figure out why she is being off with you. She might be a bit jealous, after all you are going out with her little boy (as she might see it). Invite her over for dinner or something and show her that you really like your boyfriend and want her to like you.

Answer 8

I would sit yourself and your boyfriend and talk through with him why his mum hates you? And if he says he doesn't know then you should say that he should ask her and give a good reason!

Answer 9

sounds like jealousy!! you,ve got her boys attention, not her! funny things boys mums, go with the flow, mine came round when she realised we were serious and we could all get on and he had time for both of us, she,s being a big kid, and will look very silly, just rise above it, do not make him choose!

Answer 10

Who cares? As long as your boyfriend doesn't leave you or let that interfere with your relationship then nobody really cares what she may or may not think about you.

Answer 11

Stay away from the old witch.

Answer 12

Breathe a sigh of relief now you dont have to keep on being nice to someone who clearly does not like you.

Get over it and have fun.