My partners uncles dont like me and I think their convincing him to leave me.what shud I do?

Question

Weve been going out for nearly 4 years now,we and have a daughter that is 2 an a half.

They all seem to be going out together quite alot at the min, and I never get invited.

They have always been close because they think of him like a brother.

I no they dont like me because they never try and make the effort to talk to me they just kind of ignore me, and they think he can get a better looking girlfriend.

I really dont no what to do. Everytime he meets up with them he distances himself from me a little more.

Since having my daughter Iv been suffering from post-natal depression, and I have to admit that I have distanced myself from everyone, including him.

I hate going out because I get really paranoid, I no its probably all my fault but I just dont know how to win him back.

I really love him and dont no what I will do if I lose him.

Please help me!!!

Answer 1

i think the problem here is your post-natal depression and not his uncles i had it after my son and it makes you very paranoid go and see your gp and get some help good luck

Answer 2

sit down and tell him how the post natal depression has made you feel, tell him you are feeling left out.  I'm sure he doesn't realise how much it is effecting you. as for the uncle there is no way he could split you up, your bf has his own mind.  Try and make more of an effort with the uncle as he is obviously a big part in his life therefore not going to be going away. when he sees you are making the effort chances are he will make one back.

Answer 3

I think you two should be married by now. If he leaves you just because his uncles doesn't like you, then your boyfriend doesn't love you that much. In my opinion, he's not worth it if he gets persuade by what his uncle say to leave the woman he loves (if he loves you). Of course, you can't control feelings or life will be so much easier. Because of that, I think you should have a talk with him and tell him how this makes you feel. Don't distance yourself from him, he might receive the wrong message. And gain back your confidence to show him what he will loose if he leaves you. Don't back down, fight back if you think he is worth it. Afterall, you two do have a daughter together and that will be able to hold him back for a while at least.