My pet just passed away and family treats me horrible i feel really bad and i am moving soon what do i do?

Question

i really need to make myself feel better im really upset and day after day it justs hurts me even more please help!

Answer 1

What is the one thing you enjoy doing. Try doing that thing to make you feel better. Talk to someone outside your family who can relate to what your feeling. If you don't have someone to talk to go to a chat room and find someone there. You may just need to vent your frustrations and pain.

Or, you can seek professional help. Talk to a school counselor, teacher, clergy, somebody.

Keep your head up and remember it can only get better. Your pain won't last always.

Don't take permenant actions for temporary situations.

Answer 2

sorry to hear about your pet.your family are ,maybe treating like this because they may be stressed about moving house or other things.maybe the dont understand that you were really close to your pet.explain to them also that you've got the bloos.moving house no matter wher your going can sometimes be very difficult and sometimes you just need to talk about it with people.good luck

Answer 3

If your family treats you bad then you should be glad that you are moving.  A pet dying is hard but you will have to deal with a lot of death in life and it is better that you deal with the pain than to keep it bottled up inside.  What always makes me feel better is talking to someone who will listen, offer advise when needed and not judge.  If you have no one to talk to, try focusing all of your feelings into something creative.  Whenever I feel alone I write and I find that it makes me feel better.  Good luck.

Answer 4

Try to get through it as best you can until you move- how much longer do you have to live at home? In the mean time, spend as much time as possible with friends (they're great at cheering you up!) and generally out of the house as you can, since that's where the problem seems to be. Good luck!

Answer 5

Believe it or not but each day gets a little better if you try to find positive thoughts.  I'm so sorry about your pet.  In time when you're ready think about getting another one.  Right now just understand that you are grieving the loss of a loved one.  I'm glad you are moving soon if you are being treated that badly.  Just be prepared that you are old enough and responsible enough.  That you can afford to live on your own.  A move would be a positive step in the grieving process of losing your pet.  You will feel better the only thing that can help is time.  Good Luck to you!!!!!!

Answer 6

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your pet. I know that can be tough to deal with. It sounds like your family isn't helping you to feel better. Have you tried telling them how they are making you feel? Is there someone else you can talk to, outside of your family? Maybe you can talk to a friend or a school counselor about the issues you are having at home. You might also want to try writing down or typing out your thoughts, just to get them out. This sometimes helps me when I have no one to talk to. And maybe, after time goes by and you are ready, you can get a new pet.

Hope you feel better soon, take care.

Answer 7

If you're feeling depressed, then get counseling or find someone you can talk to.  Talking about things makes them better.

It will get better if you let it.

Good luck.

Answer 8

The SPCA offers pet bereavement sessions for people that have recently lost their pets. There you can be with others that understand your loss. Sorry, about your family not understanding.

I lost my cat (10 yrs ago) but my family didn't really seem to care. His loss still chokes me up till this day. ::got a little teary eyed::

*Remember your pet will always live on in your heart and memories. I know that sounds really corny but it helps.

Answer 9

TELL YOUR FAMILY HOW YOU FEEL.