My relationship with my girlfriend is in trouble? ?

Question

My girlfriend told me that she feels like our relationship isn't like it used to be. I feel the same way. She and i both feel like we've grown so far apart.

i need some help. How can i fix this? How can we fix this? I still love her so much and she still loves me. PLease...i need help

Answer 1

i don't really think there is a way to fix it.

maybe take some time off from the relationship

& see what happens.

Answer 2

I think that you guys should hang out more often but not by urselves cuz it might seem a little strange. Get a small group of your close friends and go out and do something fun. And do something messy. So then u guys can through stuff in each others faces. It wild be more fun and more lively. Hope that helps !!!!!!!  

Answer 3

Have a heart to heart talk with her.  Ask her why does she feel that it is not the same.  Also, you must be totally honest with her as well.  Is it because you two have different interest?  Is it the comfort level gone?  Is there no excitement?  

It also depends on the length of your relationship and your ages.  I have learned that in our 20s, we have a tendency to date numerous of people and the people we are interested in our 20s are not the same people we attract in our 30s.  

There is nothing wrong with growing up and growing apart.  At least you two had the special times together.  You will always have the memories and your friendship.  Perhaps that is where you need to start.  

Where did your friendship go?  

Answer 4

You could try to find common interest and if there aren't any, then maybe it is time you two be apart.  It will hurt but it will get better.

Answer 5

If it's grown apart, there's no way to fix it. If you try, it just gets worse. I'm sorry, but it's probably not going to last.  

Answer 6

I agree with what they said above..

talk to her about it but try not to pry you know? Sometimes a girl likes to keep things to herself. Ask her what you could do to make things amazing again.

Or you could plan a date, maybe a Saturday where you two will hang out all day, movies, bike ride, just spend the whole day together, try to pick up where you guys left off before you started to grown apart.

Do something you know you both love doing

and do it!

good luck, i hope all goes well for you

Answer 7

Only you and her hold the answer. You guys need to have a serious talk. You guys have to come up with a plan to make things work. Maybe spend more time together, go out more often, or call each other more. WHatever it is that you have to do to fix the problem. Most likely it just probably needs more EFFORT from both of you. Like anything else If you don't make TIME, and effort than of course it's going to fall apart. Show each other some appreciation and stop taking each other for GRANTED. It's going to be too late once one of you really gives up. You're still in the point we're there's hope but you have to follow through with what you decide to change otherwise one of you is going to certainly move on.

Answer 8

in relationships its always common for people to grow apart and change. If you still love each other, hold on to your relationship. Maybe its just one of those forks in the road that tests the strength of your love. I would say make time for each other. Even though you may have changed interests, or have been unable to spend a lot of time together, or are getting stressed, whatever the reason, you should always be aware of the fact that even though things may change you will still love each other. If you are both up for fixing your relationship and working on it, then you should put more effort into it. Its amazing what a little effort can actually do. Maybe you could plan some kind of romantic date or do something special for her. Something that she could appreciate. Like if you remember what your first date was or something like that, and how much fun you both had or what went on you could always remind her of that. The whole point is that you want to remind each other of how much in love you are.