My room is a mess, and i don't know how to start cleaning it?

Question

okay, so im a generally clean person. but, for some reason, i cannot make myself clean my room..

10 months ago, my ex and i broke up..and as soon as i knew it was really over, i went through everything in my room, messed it all up and found everything from our relationship to box away..then, i walked away from my room, leaving my mess behind me..

and i can't make myself to clean it, no matter how hard i try..and i want to clean it, i need to clean it, but its like everytime i start, i don't know where to put everything etc. and where to start. its not messy like food/trash etc. its just filled with clothes and furniture etc. and like i said, i don't know where to start...

im thinking i don't want to face it, like i don't want to face the end of the realtionship..where do i start on my room ans how can i force myself to get it done?

Answer 1

Invite your best friends over, put on music, and make a party out of cleaning up.

Answer 2

It sounds to me that your question would be better in the social science (psychology) category than the cleaning section.

Answer 3

First shove everything off your bed and then make it once you've found the sheets pillows and what ever else you have to make your bed with. Then pick up every article of clothing and either put it away or throw it in a hamper or basket. Then pick up papers and pencils and such and then pick everything else up..

Good luck I do the same thing