My roomate I fight but this time something happened?

Question

I have had problems with my room mate in the past and we both fight. This time we started to wrestle and she got on top of me and would not let me up. She started to grind into me and would not stop, like she was riding a horse or something. At first it hurt then it felt good then I felt it wet there but it wasn't me, at first then Ii did the same. Did we have s*x and was it like she took advantage of me although I liked it?

Answer 1

yes you did

she did it to you without permission

Answer 2

This is interesting.  I would say that regardless of what happened, you need to let your friend know that she has over-stepped her boundaries.  You may have liked it... but she still pinned you down and did things to you that should have been consensual.  I would say that you did not have s*x, s*x is an activity between a man and a women (it is a shortened term for 'sexual-intercourse').  But you did engage in a sexual activity I would say from the sound of it.  It is okay to explore the feelings that you had there but you may want to sit down and talk with her about what happened and in that discussion maybe bring up that if you are going to continue anything with her that she needs to bring it up to you rather than pin you down... what she did could be considered rape even.

Answer 3

that is nasty i have to ask r u? u know tell her that u r not like that (if u rn't) and u should have never let her do that now one of you either need to move or work somethin out. now my stomach hurts even more. sorry for that answer but it's the truth

Answer 4

Well she obviously saw that you were enjoying it, so technically, its not taking advantage of you.

You say in your profile you have a BF. Does he know about this?

Also post this question in the g*y section, as it does relate to same s*x relationships, maybe they can help you more that me

Answer 5

YOU DIDNT HAVE s*x.  ALTHOUGH YOU BOTH WANT TO. YOUR FIGHTING IS YOUR TWO REACTING TO THE FACT THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE IN DENIAL ABOUT LIKING EACH OTHER... THAT WAY!

NEXT TIME JUST KISS HER WHEN THIS HAPPENS AND JUST LET IT HAPPEN. YOULL BOTH BE BETTER OFF FOR IT IN THE END.

Answer 6

you need help

Answer 7

If your clothes were offf.... yes. Otherwise no. I can't imagine what she was so mad about. She did take advantage of you because you didn't "give permission"

Answer 8

well yes I would say u did and no she didnt take advantage of u

Answer 9

Unless you were naked and there was penetration of some kind...  NO, you didn't have s*x.  But, sounds like you two enjoyed each other.  Why not take a moment and analyze it?