My roomate dislikes me b/c of my lazy eye?

Question

I have a lazy eye which gives me anxiety. ive always been a loner too. i moved into the dorm with my roommate but we aren't connecting i think shes bothered by me. i heard her telling her friends that she finds it creepy. i cant help it ive tried everything to get it fixed but nothing works. I can tell she wants to get far far away from me. I feel so hurt right now i just wanna move back home and hide. Would you despise someone because of a disability?

Answer 1

The fact that you are a loner may be the real issue. Your vibes may be sending out negative energy like go away, I don't really want any friends.

My son was born with two lazy eyes which were corrected with surgery when he was 3 years old after trying glasses.

You should seek out a doctor that knows what he is doing and that may be a stat for a new way of life for you.

It is best I know to fix those problems before someone gets older because of the mental distancing it can cause.

Years of being teased about your eye may be the real problem for you.

Answer 2

no, I know two people w/ a lazy eye. I would never despise someone because of it. You cant help having a lazy eye the same way she can't help being a shallow jerk.

No matter what you do people will find something wrong w/ the way you do things be it good or bad. Do not let one person, or 500 for that matter make you feel inferior.

Answer 3

I doubt it's just over that. Different personalities don't always mesh well, and some people are unfortunately less tolerant of personalities that differ greatly from their own. A lot of the time any little difference will set off the intense "dislike". It's definitely rude of her to be discussion your issue with others, but if you want to make things work perhaps try to do things with her. Go to lunch or go shopping together. Find an activity you both enjoy and can talk about together. Perhaps when you realize you have more in common she'll back off and start to appreciate you. If you don't see things ever improving, I'd look into another room mate who can be respectful.

Answer 4

Thats ok. My wife dislikes me  due to my lazy butt.........lol...

Answer 5

I know how you feel :(

Theres people out there who judge others on looks and things that people cant help.

But theres also people who can look past looks and disabilities.

Please know theres more people out there who wont judge you just based on something like that.