My self esteem. Need help.?

Question

I have a very low self esteem all of a sudden.

I'm failing most subjects at school.

I think I'm fat.

I hate the way i look.

I'm always tired.

I hardly eat anymore, then gauge myself.

I am not confident at all

And my boyfriend say I'm gorgeous/beautiful but we always argue about it because i say im not and he just gets sick of it.

I'm not exactly sure what to do.

Any help.

Answer 1

ok let me tell you 2 different kinds of people. 1. People that don't think about them selves that much and help other people. 2. People that only care about them selves.  

Answer 2

this is life. you face it with a fight.

Answer 3

We all at one time think we arnt very good looking, but if your boyfriend likes you the way you are you are obvisiously ok.

Try not to think to bad about yourself we all have positives, after looking at a lot of questions on yahoo you at least can spell really well where a lot of people puting up questions cant do that, think of the positive in your life, I know its hard but some people cant walk, or rely on other people to do the basic things in life like go to the toilet. I hope you feel a little better and have a good day cheers!

Answer 4

Aww my heart goes out to you.

Iif your struggling at school then you have to hold your head up high because the next week could always be better.

You might need to take a good look in the mirror and compare yourself to someone you think is unattractive and say to yourself do i really look like that?

If not you should take your self to a beauty parlour and take your self out shopping its alway a confidence booster.

If all these fail go on a girls night out and have a bit to drink 100% chance to raise your sprit and a proper feel good factor

Answer 5

you need to go seek psychiatric help. it sounds like depression.

Answer 6

It doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks of you. just be happy with who you are including how you look. i'm not saying call yourself perfect, just remember God made you and loves you just the way you are. loving God and following Him...that's all that matters in the end...

as the song goes, "You make everything Glorious and I am Yours"

and if your boyfriend says you're beautiful, i'll bet he really means it. =)

Answer 7

ugh... i have the same problem but the same day i got out of that let me me tell you you are beautiful because you are made uniquely by god and i bet you there is some girl who looks at and say why cant i be that pretty your every thing plus more because your you  

Answer 8

well i feel like that a lot but i have to remember how good i really have it when you think about all the people that are born deformed or the ones that get something amputated or if they are burned i realize how lucky i am just to be alive and thats good enough for me.